That is when you love but recieve none in return.
All sob stories welcome.
2006-10-13 07:00:38 · 13 answers · asked by themanwithnoname 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing worse than giving your heart to someone who doesn't give it back. You feel hopeless and lost. It hurts like hell.And to all those who say 'get over it' have never been there. I have and years later I still think about what could have been. In time it will hurt less. But it will never go away. Its called the ' cruelty of life'. I hope one day you find someone who will love you as much as you love them.
2006-10-15 02:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unrequieted
At first glance no sparks did fly
At second a friendly smile
At third a momentary slip
At fourth misleading words
Sent my mind adrift with wanton dreams
Fantasies fraying the borders of my thoughts
Springing dew-like tears forth from my eyes
A crackle unearths itself from my heart
Your unknowing endearing qualities
Spring forth feelings of remorse
When my true feelings became known
I tried to convince myself of your love
Unrequieted they would say
Friendship is all that you ask
For I wanted so much more
So I hang on your every word
Though the weight of them is heavy on my heart
I hang on for dear life thinking that
One day you will return
Your unrequieted love.
This is a poem I wrote 4 years ago explains all
my sad sob story which never got a happy ending other than my breaking my relationship with him friends or otherwise it was never reciprocated.
But I think now years later I won't forget him because he was special and a rarity in men these days a person who accepts you as you are.
I consider it a lesson learnt just thought I would share this since you asked it's nice in a strange way to know others have suffered as you have and have overcome it.
2006-10-13 13:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by non 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have done and it stinks....you can find some comfort in the fact that millions out there are in the same position. I think it was Yeats (poet) who suffered the same and wrote his heart out - that's always an option but bloody hard!! Stay home, chill for a while, think and then party like hell.....you'll run the risk of finding someone better. That's the mystery of life.....stay positive ; you never know what's coming next......:-) but it's always better in the end. The guy upstairs knows that!
2006-10-13 07:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by max 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey blondie!"
heh.
Ya, all the time it seems, I send out my love freely but never get anything in return for it. When I do get back it's nothing comparable to how much I loved them.
In other words, I'm an entertainier, but I entertain to make people happy, just because I love people. But there's hardly any return to my services. It's not a job, it's just me, when I see people, instantly makign it my duty to make them smile, once I do that I disappear and rarely get anything back.
Also, in my love life, I'll typically be the one who loves my partner the most. She'll love me (most of the time) but not as much as I love her. Sadly though, eventually all of this comes back at me and I end up the person who gets clingy and we all know that from there it goes down hill.
2006-10-13 07:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!although i do think there is an underlying theory for most people who suffer it. we fall in love with people who do not return it becoause we are scared of actually loving someone and being hurt doublly bad. at least if its a one way thing you can reason with yourself however unrealistic and nobody has to know. it hurts badly i know believe me but it somehow appears easier to do this than to let our heart actually go floating out only to sink!
2006-10-13 07:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by sian m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! Try as I might it seems so hard to let go! Fell for a philanderer before I knew I had fallen now trying sooo hard to rebuild my life, self-esteem and broken heart!
2006-10-13 09:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by holmsdeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough, but you have to let go of that person. Obsession is a mental illness and there are toooo many other opportunites you will miss out on. Life is short enjoy it.
2006-10-13 07:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by DR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i am and it hurts, i met someone and we had a rel for five months, i know he is the one for me but unfortunately i am not the one for him,
He tells me he loves me but does not know what he wants, He wants space
I am giving him that space but god it hurts
I know simply that i love him more than he loves me, i also know that he will not ever love me like i do him
but hey that's life and i just think that i am being severely punished for something i just don't know what!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 07:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through it, you learn you move on, wheres the sob?
2006-10-13 07:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said i was sick in the head and should shoot myself that is what my unrequited love has done.
2006-10-13 07:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by goodgirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋