Ok look me and my girl just broke up and its killin me inside. This is the second time. I don't know what to do i mean i love her yea i wish i still had her. She wont even tell me why she broke up with me i mean i call she hangs up. i am jus ready to say forget it but then again i cnt its hard to let go of her when shes the 1 i wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Shes on to many games but yet she still runs through my mind. What should i do
2006-10-13 06:58:25 · 9 answers · asked by bigboicj08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You want to spend your life with her; but SHE doesn't appear to want to spend her life with you. Love should be a two way street, it hurts now, but later you'll thank yourself for ending it. Take your pain, heal and move on.
2006-10-13 07:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by euchremother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you get over her. The more that you keep calling and begging, the more repulsed she will feel toward you. Just accept the fact that there is someone else for you out there instead of her (we've all been there, it we have all lived through it). Ironically, the more that you try to win her back, the farther away from you that she will run. Your only hope of ever getting her back is to show her that you are independent and can live without her. People want only want that which is hard to get.
Try cultivating hobbies, or activities with friends, in order to keep yourself busy, and you will get her off of your mind.
Also, talk and flirt with other girls, You will find someone better than her, believe it or not, and you will probably decide that you don't want her back after all.
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2006-10-13 07:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you guys find those angry faces for you Avatars? Any way back on the subject, just leave her alone. If she is going to act like an a** and not give you any kind of explanation. You don't need her. Look for a girl that doesn't play games and is drama free.
2006-10-13 07:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on her If u Keep Calling then she's going to keep playing hard 2 get just back off and see what happens
2006-10-13 07:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by pittbull80556969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think the best thing to do would be to just let it go. Easier said than done, I know, but it takes time...I wish you the best!
2006-10-13 07:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are close to her family, maybe you could talk to them, and see what is going on, or write her a letter/text message/ email, something, or just keep trying to call, try to find, out, because if she is the one, don't give up so easy
2006-10-13 07:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break the news to you buddy but she is dating a rich white guy.
2006-10-13 07:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her go theres someone better out there for you
2006-10-13 07:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by popcorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
2006-10-13 07:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋