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Ever since my bf told his mom that I had cheated on him, she has declared war on me. We have a baby girl together and she thinks that the baby isn’t his. Sometimes when I call, she tells me that her son is coming late because he was going out with some girl. This just gets me so upset. When my bf finally calls me and lets me know he is home I tell him what happened and he says that he will talk to her. Fore some time things are ok, but soon after she does it again. I’ve never disrespected her. Now she did it again and I just don't know what to do. I was calling my bf work since 5 pm and he called me like at 7pm saying that he had just gotten home. That he got out like at 6:30 I was so frustrated. I told him what his mom had said and asked him to tell her not to do it any more. I wanted to hear it. But he just said. This is between my mom and me its has nothing to do with u. I feel like he lets her do what ever she wants with me and I can’t seem to be able to say anything. Please help..

2006-10-13 06:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by Twilight 3 in Family & Relationships Family

6 answers

i had a similar problem when i was younger it got to the point where i ended up having to tell my bf's mother to mind her own business, it got to the point where i just couldn't take it anymore. tell your bf to talk to his mother or you will. some mothers are just too nosey!!!!

2006-10-13 07:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0 0

This is a bad situation all around. There really isn't much you can do....you can't force your BF to choose between his mother and you because you can't possibly win (esp. since you did cheat on him). Why call the house at all? Why not just call his cell. If he doesn't have one, he should def get one in case you ever have an emergency. Good luck!

2006-10-13 14:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0 0

You've never disrespected her. Yet....you were unfaithful to her son. Most mother's subscribe to the philosphy "Hurt my kids, you hurt me".

You screwed up. Big time. No wonder she hates you. Heh, heh...this is your pennance baby. You've made this bed and now you want someone to lie in it with you.

You either sit down with her and discuss this rationally like an adult with her and ask her why she feels this way. Be forwarned..you will be eating some sh*t. Rightly so too. If not...then you'll have to learn to live with it. He has no control over his mother. Nor should he.

So...quit b*tchin' about your screw up. Take the steps necessary to fix it.

2006-10-13 14:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0 0

How would your mother react to him if he cheated on you? I have 3 daughters and one son and I would find it hard to be nice to someone who hurt my child like that. Maybe in time if you stay true she will get over it. Stuff happens and I am sure you are a very nice person, I would not hazard to guess your reasoning for cheating.

2006-10-13 14:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Judy W 1 · 0 0

Next time she says it just say, oh okay... I was wondering when they'd be back cause we're supposed to have a threesome tonight.

2006-10-13 14:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0 0

TELL HER TO "MYOFB".
SHOULDN'T BE CHEATING ON YOUR MAN.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

2006-10-13 14:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0 0

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