how do u kno if a guy likes u or is actually using you do they act the same way???and what do they do when they like you?
2006-10-13 06:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by lillybeans13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Different guys show it different ways.
Usually they will be more considerate of your feelings. They will offer more to you. You will get this feeling of they care.
2006-10-13 06:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when they like for one thing they would treat to outings and such and they would call for no reason just to hear your voice. If they on bull sh** with u then they'll beg allot or ask for favors allot more then usuall. My sister in my opinion has someone i think is user her because he promised so many good things to her before they became official but now that they're together he has spent more then he has put in and as a matter of fact he hasn't put any damn thing in at all. But when they don't do things for u and only for themselves but what they do effects u to, then they don't care about u and they are only using u because why would a person do something that effects 2 people but only have one person in mind (themselves) when doin' that something. My sister have a unwanted cat in her house that he brought in and she is terrified of it and it won't get rid of it and he says he loves her, can u tell? But u know in you're heart and i know my sister knows, but the fact that she wants a man so bad she looks over stuff that's right in her face just to keep him, so don't so what she does, if u got that feelin' then u run with and u address it and if he says nall that's not it then u should see some adjustments made after addressing it. But if he still do that same thing after u have confronted him about the way u feel them u know what u gotta do. Drop him like it's hot!
2006-10-13 07:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by the real deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't till you date enough when you can read what kind a guy this person is by first glance. But till then you just have to learn.
Rule 1, get past the look and listen to their bull.
Rule 2, Study the pattern that guy have. it's what he know vs what he don't know will always show up in that pattern
Rule 3. study a person's detail. That will tell you his living habit.
With that you know he can lie about thing or not. and all guy at first lie about things.
good luck
2006-10-13 06:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the longest time I thought it was obvious for people to tell if someone was using them, a while back though I realized it isn't like that.
You can tell if someone is using you by how much they demand out of you. If they frequently make you do stuff for them that you don't really want to do, but you do them anyway, chances are they are using you.
All guys are different on the other hand, someone may like you but do different things than another who likes you also. In other words, sorry but it's a difficult thing to do.
2006-10-13 06:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is a tricky one, because really how would you know if a guy is using you or being real? I guess it takes time, just to get to know him and hopefully your gut feelings give you the answer you are looking for. Remember a guy can't fall for someone that fast and easily unless he is just one of a kind =\ Guys are just mysterious...
2006-10-13 06:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Bebe760 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How's this? He shows up at your place, takes you to his or drags you into the back seat of a car. Screws you every which way but Sunday, groans "I love you too" once or twice and then throws on his pants and says "Gotta go", then you're being used.
Doesn't mean he doesn't like you though if that's any consolation.
2006-10-13 06:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Know a guy really likes you if he is more concerned with being with you emotionally rather than physically. Also, he really likes you if he says he loves you and really truly means it (you can tell by the way he says it). That's a guys advice.
KT
2006-10-13 06:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no to a couple of things you think he's using you for...If he gets mad or stops seeing you or acts differently...he's using u...if not, he's not using you, or he's running a good game...& there's no way to get around a guy with good game.. ;) thank you come again.
2006-10-13 06:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a difference and it is so hard to see the difference. but a guy who isn't using you, you will see that they tell you more personal things and they will want to get close to you. But a guy who is using you won't want to get too close to you and doesn't tell you things and makes lies about things. Thats my opinion. :)
2006-10-13 06:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia16125 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't really know for sure, unless he have cheated before, have taken all ur money, and its treating u bad unless he wants something. u can't never really know, untill its too late
2006-10-13 06:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋