Not to be negative....but there are a lot of good things in life..but when the bad times hit they are excuitatingly painful...How do you move on from the bad times because you can't "let go"...you will always remember...????just a little help please!!!
2006-10-13 06:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Letting go is hard, so what I do is ask myself, In a hundred years from now, will this matter?, then I tell myself that I will not let this day be ruined by things I can not control or change at this time, then I feel better and Slowly, I get through it.
Good Luck
2006-10-13 06:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be difficult. Mine has been that way for 5 yrs now. Im trying to beat an illness and it hasnt been easy. I live with alot of pain and weakness. Gets unbarable at times, and I want to give up, depression sets in. Some how I snap out of it within a day or so. Some days are harder than others.
Dont give up on life. Itll get better if you let it. There are always gonna be good and bad days. You just gotta move forward, dont dwell on the past or the negative. Keep yourself busy.
Life IS worth living.
2006-10-13 06:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take life so seriously, when the bad times hit, just have an "I don't care" attitude and walk away and forget about it. Life isn't difficult, life is easy...you just live one day at a time and simply survive, it couldn't get much easier. Life is for sure not brutal, not if you have a "don't care" attitude. I'm not saying you should harden yourself too much and be negative and seem hateful to other people around you, but just don't let things burden you down, life goes on. You are going to have to harden yourself a little so you can let things just slide off your back and not carry them with you. My only other advice, find someone to talk to...vent a little. Time heals all wounds.
2006-10-13 07:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by still_feel_gone83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I went thru a divorce, my mother was dx. with cancer, and things were pretty bleak, from my point of view. I had supportive friends, but it seemed I couldn't get away from the depression and hopelessness and pain I felt. The book "Living Thru Personal Crisis" by Ann Kaiser Stearns, was recommended to me, so I bought it and read it. It is a quick, easy read. Believe me, that book helped me more than anything. I've read it several times since, like after a death in the family, job changes, etc., and I've shared it with others who also found it helpful. You may think this is a lame suggestion, but I was desperate and glad to try it. You can find it at an on line book site or your local library or book store.
2006-10-13 06:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and laugh.
Believe me, when something bad happens to you, use it as a learning experience to never do it again.
Yes, the pain will always be there, but I truly believe in "whatever doesn't kill you only makes you stronger".
Life is too short to dwell on the bad. You never know what will happened tomorrow.
2006-10-13 06:40:27 · answer #5 · answered by rouschkateer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on really what your talking about, social (boyfriend and parent problems) or economical? I'll respond to your question in more of cultural terms. Americans need to start living life a little more simpler and sustainable, this will increase your quality of life.
2006-10-13 06:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD its the only way through. pray pray pray. it gets you through. dont forget these times they make you tougher. you do need to filter just for your own sanity. pray every time you feel despare. stay close to the people who make you feel safe. good luck and remember the world still has a lot of good floating around it.
2006-10-13 11:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, It can be a pain. Many of a time, I have cried out to God, " Why!"
Long walks, help me.
Praying and sharing with God my inter-feelings.
When your all alone, sometimes Jesus is your only friend.
I haven't killed myself yet, thanks to Christ
live long
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2006-10-13 06:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our scars help define who we are... all you can do is give it 100%
2006-10-13 06:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by morlock825 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋