Are not sure where it's going she says that's ok just at least tell me that, and I will make the decision for myself by just moving on. Because I don't want to pressure him, and I don't want to put him in a position where he feels his back against the wall. I am saying I will just go ahead and close the chapter for both of us by moving on that way I wont feel like I am wasting my time, and he wont feel like he has been given an ultimatum.
My question is what does it means if he does not answer you? If he does not answer you then how do you suppose to know if he wants you to move on or not. Also if you are willing to make it easy on him, and just walk away you may feel a little hurt, but there would be no bad feelings. What man would not want that as a way out, if an out was really what they wanted?
Yes I am assuming he wants an out because he wont give me an answer. I need a real man to answer this question.
2006-10-13 06:27:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, many if not most guys don't know how to answer that question. We don't think that far ahead a lot of the time. He doesn't necessarily want an out...he might be totally OK with things as they are, and is scratching his head wondering what you mean. In my experience, normally when it gets to the point where she's asking that question, it means that a) SHE'S not happy with the relationship, or more likely b) she's found someone else and just wants to make it look like he's the one who wants to break it off so she has a clean conscience.
In short, just because the guy doesn't answer, doesn't mean that he doesn't care, or that he wants to end it...it might just mean that he doesn't know.
2006-10-13 06:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably pretty safe to say he's not head over heels in love with you but likes things the way they are. So, he likes you but not enough to go to the next level. And, he's afraid to tell you. Think about why it might be that he's afraid to tell you and answer you don't want to hear.
2006-10-13 06:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion ... He just likes it just the way it is .
2006-10-13 06:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by mmmmmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋