what do you do when the person you like has recently split up with their girlfriend but you know they are looking for another? This person isnt particularly liked by many of your male friends and you are very unsure whether they would date you even if you asked. You are quite good friends with the person but would never have the confidence to ask them as you know they might say no. What do you do?
2006-10-13 06:21:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to go out with this person you will never know if he will say no unless you ask. To this point you are only assuming he will say now and you know the old saying about assuming things....
The worst that can happen is he will say no. The best that can happen is you'll live happily ever after. So what's stopping you?
2006-10-13 06:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a wonderful opportunity at your fingertips. I would talk to the ex-girlfriend and ask first what was wrong with him and how was he as a mate. No doubt, she'd confide in him your interest, or you could request that she confie in him your interest.
It may be that after speaking to her you may no longer be interested. Ex-girlfriends are the best source (the fresher the break-up the better) of finding out the truth about his idiosyncracies without having to experience them first hand.
2006-10-13 13:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
I have been there pleanty. I have learned no matter what the friendship between you is better than not being friends at all. I honestly would write him a note to ensure him that friendship means alot, but you would like to go farther if possible. Nothing ever will go anywhere if you dont ask.
Hope this helps,
**MARKYann**
2006-10-13 13:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by **markyann** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to go for it and ask him stop being scare you never knoe he might say yes instead of thinking that he going to say no think that he going to day yes
good luck!!!!
2006-10-13 13:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask the worst thing they could say is no, if they say no just ask them if they still want to be friends.
2006-10-13 13:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by formerffagirl05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would flirt with them until i was positive they would say yes and then ask them out. and i would do it anyway becuase if i dont i no i am going to regret it
2006-10-13 13:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by lovely brunette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about forget about them and find someone else.
2006-10-13 13:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel and see where it goes cause if you dont you will always ask your self what if. and you will never truley be happy
2006-10-13 13:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by michaelslady95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends if they ask you out then good if not oh well
2006-10-13 13:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out.u wont lose anything if anything u might lose a loser.good for u.
2006-10-13 13:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋