but I don't want to be attracted to him. How can I stop? and its not like I can stop talking to him because we are in the same classes and we study together (something I can't stop) so how do I stop I love my bf and I know this is just attraction but what should I do?
2006-10-13 06:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that your dating someone else and you prefer if you dont talk as much.....Think about your bf and not what someone else can give you..
2006-10-13 06:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a b/f that won't move to your location for 1 1/2 years? Is he really a boyfriend? Only you can answer that.
As for the attraction to this other guy, he's close, and "huggable." That could be the reason for the attraction. A long distance relationship is the hardest kind to have. You have to decide if it's worth it. If it is, you need to make changes in your life so your attraction doesn't become overwhelming and you give in to temptation.
2006-10-13 13:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by hammer6505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only human and natural to be attracted to members of the opposite sex who meet certain standards, chemistry etc. Physical attraction drives procreation. What makes us civilized is having the intelligence to choose when will act on the attraction.
My wife has many qualities that I find attractive and that made me want to marry her in the first place. I'm not blind! I see and sense many of those qualities in women all the time and find them attractive as well. However, commitment prevents me from choosing to act on those feelings.
BTW, you are not going to see this guy for over a year. Is he really worth that kind of wait? If he is, why aren't you married to him already?
2006-10-13 13:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u wanna stop then just try 2 igonre himtheres not much u can do i meen i personally dont b-leave in long distance relationships b./c they never seem 2 work out! mayb u should give up on ur b/f cuz i bet he is thinkin the same thing about a gurl 2 his skool, soo mayb breakinup is the best thin 4 u and him if u want my advice i hope i could help i wish the best of luck!
2006-10-13 13:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by hotthangoxox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You decide to stop- by choice- control yourself and make wise decisions- do you think your bf is having the same problem- keep you class crush on a business level- and don't get alone w him or open a door for something to happen= D
2006-10-13 13:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him during class and if you are forced to study with him, not sure how that works, make sure he realizes you are just studying not pursuing any other relationship.
2006-10-13 13:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cats away, the mice will play. Date the new guy.
2006-10-13 13:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by That Guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww the tragedy fo it all!! You poor thing
2006-10-13 13:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is your live and if you want to see other men then you can just remember it is you life
2006-10-13 13:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by Justice L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do him till he cannot walk then move on
2006-10-13 13:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋