reach down and grab the behind? They do it all the time in the movies, even when they are complete strangers, but in real life, it's against the law, and you could be convicted of molestation, so how normal or commonplace is this "move"?
2006-10-13 06:08:32 · 17 answers · asked by martin h 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You are not supposed to grab it. Begin by resting your hand on it, then begin to gently massage while pressing your pelvis against her. THAT is the move.
2006-10-13 06:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by KQ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What goes on in "The Movies",is called "Acting". Grabbing the behind is part of the movie script.. It would not be wise to grab the girl's behind while dancing, simply because it is not good etiquette,and it shows sexual behavior. Always be a gentleman,when approaching a lady for a dance,(especially someone you don't know). She just might be someone you want to get to know. Not only will she respect you,but (who knows),she may want to get to know you too!,so don't blow your chance,by touching her inappropriately.
2006-10-13 06:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've seen that in movies, and one my school's, um, 'players' has grabbed like 8 at school dances. He finally got caught. NEVER do that kind of stuff. You can get placed in jail or juvenile hall, and also the girl will more than likely slap you good. It's just plain WRONG.
2006-10-13 06:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by livingtoon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of movies have you been watching?
I have never seen that in a movie. Complete strangers do not do that in the movies or real life. Are you talking about one specific movie?
2006-10-13 06:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nope - not a good idea to do that.
Movies are NOT real life! Gawd.. common sense!
Don't touch a girl while dancing unless she's your wife/girlfriend.
2006-10-13 06:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very stupid movies. Most TV and Hollywood decisions are made by people so out of touch with what reality really is is not funny. they think to sell a movie to the public it has to have sex and violence. They only sell to the lowest of the lowest common denominator.....
2006-10-13 06:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by MaddDogg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you are dancing with a long tme love, go for it. If it is a new gf, I wouldn't until/unless you have become intimate & know her better. Remember, movies are generally fantasy....
2006-10-13 06:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen it in movies.
I've also seen people travel through worm holes in movies.
So it depends on the relationship between you and the girl.
2006-10-13 06:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you've done it before & got a way with it and it's the same girl. Personally I like it when they put their hands on my hips but NOT my bum.
2006-10-13 09:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by tygernside 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not do this to a woman that you are not married to, and then only with her permission.
It's completely inappropriate to do this to a stranger.
2006-10-13 08:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋