We were together for just over a year and lived together for 7 months. He broke things off after I moved out. I feel very angry toward him for hurting me that way for no good reason. I treated him like a king, and cared for his 3 controlling daughters who never liked me, being part of the reason i moved out. I met a new guy that is younger, cuter, richer, and never been married no kids. I am so scared of getting hurt again and feel unsure. I don't want to miss out on getting to know him though, he's such a gentleman and very sweet as well. Is it just too soon?
2006-10-13 06:08:06 · 40 answers · asked by SweeT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. You are finished with your X, you owe him nothing. If you don't have feelings for him, and there's no way that you'll come back to him , you can do whatever your heart pleases. With whoever you want... There isn't some period that you are not allowed to date. Look it this way, if people can cheat their "loved" ones, why can't you date a guy when you are free. Go girl. If he's your ticket to happiness, pack your suitcases with positive energy and for just in case , a lot of precaution. It never hurts to take care of your heart, today lot of people want to hurt it...
Have faith in love, and please... Don't miss out on anything that provides you pleasure...
Good luck honey, hope that everything will work out for you just fine!
2006-10-13 06:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a new opportunity, even more when you gave all you had... 2 weeks is kind of soon because you still healing from your previous relationship but not for that you are going to miss out on getting to know him... give you & him the oportunity of getting to know each other and take 1 day at the time, because it is time what will guide you the right way and if he really is all you say, maybe you just got out that prev experince so you could really valorate this one... ;-) good luck!
2006-10-13 06:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by Oda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no it's not to soon. Just don't limit yourself to just the other guy. Then you might get into something you'll regret later. You got hurt - you need to heal that part of you. You wanting the things the ex didn't give you & you're seeing it in this other guy. You might end up hurt doing it that way. Get to know him, spend time with him but also enjoy others company to make sure you end up with the one that treats you the way you want. Enjoy life.
2006-10-13 06:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by tygernside 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not too soon. You should move on, get to know him better, and be happy. You can be as scared as you want, but please, don't hold yourself back. He sounds really good for you, so go for it. What do you REALLY have to lose? Nothing. YOU still have you in the end. And a few more experiences and happy moments to remember. Life goes on after a break up, don't let the break up hold you back from taking chances. Life is as full of disappointments as it is wonderful surprises. GO for it. Have a good time.......... Blessed be.
2006-10-13 06:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon for what? Dinner and a movie?
Just go and have fun and let the hurt go. You don't have to marry this dude just to date him. Enjoy.
Also, don't move in with someone you only dated 5 months. That's a blip in time and not enough to determine success in a relationship.
2006-10-13 06:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by ssssss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was with my husband for 12 years. we have been living in the same house but technically seperated untill a month ago. 11 days after i moved out, i ran into an old flame & we started seeing eachother. it's like we picked up right where we left off. so.....no, i don't think it is too soon. yor heart feels what it feels.
2006-10-13 06:13:37 · answer #6 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no kis involved so it purely your life. But move in slowly and try to avoid getting serious fast as HE may not be what your looking for,just what you wanted your ex to be,or what you once had. It can compare to trying to get pregnant right after a miscarriage or child loss. Really,you just want your baby back,not a new baby.
2006-10-13 06:11:42 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you were married to this guy. You weren't. You aren't seperated, you broke up with the wrong guy.
Now, maybe you've met the right guy. Give it a try. Don't rush in to anything, but go on a date!
2006-10-13 06:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by hammer6505 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 07:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about yourself dont do the rebound thing. Give yourself at least 6 months. Try just talking to him on the phone a few times and maybe a few dates but dont sleep with him, you need some time.
2006-10-13 06:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋