My girl and I have been going 2gether 4 almost 2 mths and I still haven't seen her. We met on crushspot.com and I even talked to her on the phone. But everytime I bring up the question about us going out on a date, she avoids the question. Also she keeps putting me on hold 4 a long time. It seems to me that she doesn't want to go out with me. What should I do?
2006-10-13 06:05:58 · 23 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going out? Are you kidding me? For all you know she is a guy acting out a fetish. Seriously, move on and get out into the real world.
2006-10-13 06:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by Akkakk the befuddled 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Michael W,
I've heard nothing but horror stories about Internet dating. Either the women are ugly, fat chicks, that could never meet anybody in person, is married, or worse, she's really a guy that has been stringing you along for these two months.
If you want to stick to being Internet friends, there's nothing wrong with that, but I would recommend that you skip trying to move this relationship onto the next level and try to meet girls in real life, like nature intended.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
--Rick
2006-10-13 13:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you are "TOGETHER" when you have never even been out yet? She is not willing for you to follow up on anything, because then she would have to actually deal with a human, not a fantasy man. Give her an ultimatum, "If you will not meet with me for a soda, then we will have to stop chatting altogether."
Find a real person to talk to, plenty you can run itno in the grocery store, at the gym, at Barnes & Noble..... real live people.
Good luck.
2006-10-13 13:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by H2Ocolors 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know why she puts you on hold for a long time? It is rather rude. When she does it, ask her if she is busy and tell her you would prefer she call you back. Also, there is a chance that she hasn't been completely honest about herself and is therefore nervous about meeting you in person. She may also feel that you are moving too fast. You reference her as your girlfriend, but you haven't met in person. Consider taking it slower and talk to her about your feelings. If she continues to put off meeting you, move on.
2006-10-13 13:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by sounsure90211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, she is not your girlfriend because if she was, she would not treat you like this. Second, she sounds like she is either married or cohabitating with someone and playing around on the net for whatever reason. Meeting someone online and forging a relationship is pretty much like playing Russian Roulette. There are too many other women out there, just move on.
2006-10-13 13:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be shy or just playing with you. If you like what you have right now just go with it. Don't pressure her to meet because it will make her think you are desparate. That will push her away. Try asking her on a double date or a group outing. She may be more comfortable in a group than on a one on one date.
2006-10-13 13:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Steven D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes probably married or in a steady relationship despite what she has told you........either that or she has lied about what she looks like, she might be daughter of the pilsbury dough boy instead of that long leggy blonde she told you she was. I would buy yourself a webcam and do what me and my hubs did from day one, chat on cam so we can see each other. We have been married 3.5 years now.
2006-10-13 13:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your girlfriend if you have never seen her so feel free to get off the computer to go clubbing and find a real girl.
2006-10-13 13:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's disrespected your time and energy enough hasn't she? You've never met in real life and you already need advice on how to deal with her? Boo. She doesn't sound like a keeper to me. And she REALLY doesn't seem to be into you. Go play.
2006-10-13 13:09:55 · answer #9 · answered by CharlieCat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As someone who met my wife on the internet, you are not really dating. If she were truly interested, you'd have already swapped pictures, addresses, etc and met already. You haven't.
Keep looking, you'll find her. But this one, I don't think so.
2006-10-13 13:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by hammer6505 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋