2006-10-13 05:50:22 · 16 answers · asked by stoned_under_lisense 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you will have to see her with a new heart and eyes. Love is blind and maybe shes not for you, its hard to see a person with new eyes but you need to. Remember and know all the good things and see what happened for what it is- if she didn't mean to do it, then you have a harder decision to make than if it was on purpose. Just because you love someone, doesn't mean its the rigt love, and it still doesn't lessen the bad or all the good. Take the lessons and the memories and decide it its worth the work, if there is no going back then be glad it happened before you were in anything permenant-bitterness only hurts you. Besides, your somebody is out there! I met mine on a so cal freeway being late for work after a 10 yr relationship with someone else- were married 20 years and best friends and still giggle and do all the GOOD physical things too! (More than you younger ones realize!;0)
2006-10-13 05:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waz in dat same postion bro i kno what it feels like to be hurt by the love of ur life, my answers 4 dis same aks & answer waz 4 get her,move on, if she really cared she nerver leave and many more stuff pertaining to the question. So i think u should do the same settle down then move on peace bro...
2006-10-13 06:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello stoned_under_license,
After a certain amount of morning, you dust yourself off, get dressed and get back out there and meet as many girls as you can.
Get together with your buddies, go to the clubs, dance, and hunt in packs for the best results. If you see somebody you like, try to get their phone number, or give them your number.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-10-13 05:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to heal and then you move on and live your life. Another woman will come along and she may be the right one for you. One thing I'll advise is for you to not give so much of your emotions until a significant amount of time has passed.
2006-10-13 05:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u eva try to talk to her about the whole thing u kno it helps to talk not with everyone but itz worth a try. If it don't work then i think u should follow your instincts if there are any (leave)
2006-10-13 05:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Antinitra B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have courage. For there is a saying, If at first you don't succeede try again.
2006-10-13 05:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try to talk her out of it.
Then you cry.
Then you wallow in self pity.
Then you try to talk her out of it again.
Then you grieve.
Then, although you will always remember her, you move on. You have to move on to survive.
2006-10-13 05:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Tad Dubious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cry it out or whatever relieves your stress the most try to work it out and if that doesn't work find someone
else
2006-10-13 05:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Eamons- ***** it
Awwsome song .. it will help you move on..
2006-10-13 05:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into the mirror and say "I have been dumped and I am proud."
2006-10-13 06:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Eata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋