How do I get rid of the truck loads of attitude that I have when it comes to guys... I have also lost some of my friends due to this...
2006-10-13 05:44:54 · 9 answers · asked by crimson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to deal with what ever issues exist within yourself that cause you to have this attitude. Attitude is usually a defense mechanism people use to protect themselves from things that have hurt them in the past. You have to make peace with your past and realize that the future is what you choose to make of it and the people you meet in the future deserve a chance to be judged on their own merits and not judged based upon your past experiences.
2006-10-13 05:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will tell you what to do but at the end of the day, the onus are really on you to put them into action. Firstly pull out a paper and pen and jot down what you think might be the "problem". Then ask the friends that you still have to tell you what your flaws are and they have to be honest in their answers. Take those with you and compare to the list you made. And then you can decide how you want to tackle those "problems" one by one. It takes time but in the end, it pays off. Hope I helped a little
2006-10-13 05:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the prob. is with your attitude. You don't say but, you must know what it is. If you do, then change it before you lose more people from your life. Try to think about why you have this attitude. And think how fortunate you are to have people love you.
2006-10-13 05:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooner or later someone will adore your attitude. Trust me!
2006-10-13 05:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of how you want to be not only talked to but also how you want people to treat you as well!!
2006-10-13 05:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
volunteer....nothing makes people modest like volunteering to help the less fortunate
2006-10-13 05:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't sweat the little stuff.
2006-10-13 05:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you've been sh*t on enough times, it usually goes away by itself. Lonliness is not fun..............
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-10-13 05:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me and I will tell you ;)
2006-10-13 05:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋