Ok I like this onegirl but its hard for me to say i mean i have a gf but im in a tough situaition should i quit with my gf or stay i love my gf. What should i do.
2006-10-13 05:40:12 · 26 answers · asked by Bryce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal to be attracted to other people when you are in a relationship (dating, or even married). you cross the line when your interest is more than "just looking" and goes to "want more". the fact that you have feelings for another girl despite being in "love" with your current gf tells me that your love isn't so strong. i'd suggest you break up with your gf and after some time passes, and you still have feelings for this other girl and she is available, go out with her. don't rush into anything.
its ok to break up and find a new relationship rather than be stuck in something that you're not 100% sure about. that's just life.
2006-10-13 05:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Gumnaam1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to evaluate first if are in love with current gf. It appears that you might not since you are looking at other people. You might just want to ask current gf for some time off from relationship.......they you can date and see if you really like the other girl or you are trully in love with your current gf. It doesn't hurt to try.
2006-10-13 12:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by kahloguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you LOVE your girlfriend and you only LIKE this girl, you should stay with your girlfriend and quit seeing this other girl altogether to avoid ruining the relationship you have.
If you find that you can't get this girl off of your mind and it's interfering with your relationship, then you should do the right thing and let your girlfriend go, so that she doesn't have to be in a relationship with a guy who's interested in other people.
2006-10-13 12:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by fruitnroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you where in love with your girlfriend you would only have eyes for her.
You may love your gf but you are not inlove.
You can either settle with your gf or break it off and try someone you can be "in" love with.
Trust me.. you will know the right girl when you find her. Till then, keep having fun.
Good luck!
2006-10-13 12:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by FerymayGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, your spelling's not that bad. -- The pos/neg list is a good idea. Also, consider your age--if you're under 25, wait a year or two, you'll be surprised how much you change --it's a known milestone age (25) for guys--
In general, though, I think honesty with your girl friend about your strong, albeit ambiguous, feelings is a good place to start.
Good luck.
2006-10-13 12:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by Clycs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U love UR girlfriend why R U even considering it?
The Grass is rarely greener & the chances of hurting UR girlfriend in the process, do U think it's worth it?
Only U know the answer.
2006-10-13 12:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again the devil has reared his ugly little head and placed TEMPTATION in your path. Do not give in to temptation. Stay with the girlfriend you love. If you really love her, you will be faithful to her. How would you feel if this was the other way around? Give her the same respect. I hope you do the right thing. Good luck.
2006-10-13 12:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make up your mind. How long have you been with your girlfriend? Have you cheated on her before? Don't lead her on if you have doubts. That would hurt her worse than breaking it off. And if the other girl is just a crush or something you'll be making a big mistake.
2006-10-13 12:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind about your girlfriend before you start complicating someone else's life.
Hint: Girls hate wishy-washy guys, especially guys who are already involved. It's not an especially attractive quality in a guy, and makes you wonder if he'd do the same to you down the road.
Would you date a girl that already had a boyfriend and couldn't make up her mind.
Nah. I didn't think so.
2006-10-13 12:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying "Look, but don't touch". There is always going to be that good looking girl that will turn your head, but good looking is not being in love with. True love is hard to find, do you want to throw it away for a quick piece.
2006-10-13 12:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋