why dont men after being with someone 2 years and then leavin u give a shyt if ur hurting?no feelings when u cry no remorse they hurt u they dont remember the good times likeus woman.why ?how do u make a man hurt over leaving u?and losing u how ?suggestions he dont call he doesnt wanna see me he said he loves me but..doesnt want to fight nomore..will he hurt at all everyday together 2 years living together..is he cheating i wonder.anyways i want him to feel the pain im going thru help
2006-10-13 05:38:49 · 15 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm he dont live in my area nomore n we didnt do clubs so and as his friends go they sucked..so
2006-10-13 05:53:13 · update #1
Obviously he has had enough pain. Arguing and fighting do alot of emotional damage to your spirit...even tho he doesn't say it to you.
He needs to distance himself from the relationship and you so he can heal....
The time factor makes no difference.... when someone can't cope with a situation anymore they can't .....
Get yourself back on track and heal your spirit....
don't concern yourself with anger and bitterness towards him. it will only prevent you from healing and moving on with your life....
2006-10-13 05:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a two year relationship also I still live with him but lately when we argue he doesn't feel bad at all he Say's oh well I can leave if I don't like his attitude.A few times I have left to a friends house this last time it was for about 3 days I left my car here when I called him looking for a ride he suggested getting 1 from someone else and didn't even offer..also he leaves daily to go kick it with friends well so he says then when he gets home it's damn near bed time he knows it bothers me but still does it anyways,if I ask to go with he says I am trying to check up on him so I don't go I am to the point of packing up all my stuff and leaving but sometimes when we talk and he says 1 nice thing I take that as "ok we can work this out"but then he just does it again I wish I could make him feel the hurt that he has mad me feel too but I have a heart..wish I could help you but I am in the same boat good luck...
2006-10-13 12:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by noimok 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys hurt, I am and my gilfriend wanted space thats a totally natrual thing but its still tough for me. I know she could do better and it worries me a bit and I get a little jealous cause I like her a lot but everybody hurts some people really just have to hide it and keep on going cuase there is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how long the tunnel may be.
2006-10-13 13:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by konstantine1187 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousin went through that stage a couple of months ago. don't think about trying to hurt him, Just relax and start looking even more fantastic and go to his favorite clubs and have fun and flirt let him see that you are better off without him and if he doesn't see you make sure his friends see you cause they will tell him everything, so just have fun to let him think you are over him that he was a mistake and he will be calling you like crazy but then you will be the one avoiding him. GOOD LUCK. This will definitely work for sure.
2006-10-13 12:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men are good at separating their emotions. It could have to do with a rough life or situations which have left him disconnected. I am the same way . I had my heart broken once . Since then i have separated emotion. I am married for now but if we split tomorrow I would only care about my children. I could take or leave her and it makes no difference to me. But extreme makeover home edition chokes me up sometimes.
2006-10-13 12:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he shows no feeling towards you then I say that he didn't care about the relationship or you. Sorry that i have to say that. But love hurt. Unless he really can't express his feeling in front of you. But it hard to make him feel what you are going through, but yet again. there is no revenge like a women revenge. You will think of something.
2006-10-13 12:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by Smartyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We gotta be tough...(you wouldn't like us if we were sissy- )but we DO have feelings , AND we hurt just as much as you girls do....maybe more 'cause we gotta keep it all inside and not let it show by playin' it hard !!! If you REALLY want to hurt him...be happy ...find a better guy and TRULY BE HAPPY and let him see that you are happy and better off with this new guy (who is way better than him!!!) and he will be hurt - as much as he can be !
2006-10-13 12:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's over,no need2waste ur tyme tryin 2 hurt him.focus on urself now n try2get over him.U werent meant2b.In tyme u'll find ur soul mate n forget about ol that pain.Gud luck.
2006-10-13 12:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need do anything.when a guy have change his heart,he will be mean.no matter what you do he also would not care. think,if he really likes you,would he treat you such a way?? forget about him and continue life.do not make yourself being so rely on him and cannot lost him.this only will make him proud and look down on you.
2006-10-13 12:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually put up this same front because i know if i act any different , she will not respect me or think i have any dignity.
6 months from now u will be numb to it all...someone may even bring up his name to u and you will shrug it off....u will say to urself "o well that was then and this is now"
in order to get to this point make sure u cut off all ties.
2006-10-13 13:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋