I ran into this guy about 7 months ago and we had hit it off talking,i was still bitter about catching my ex cheating on me(they are friends)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,I asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was a complete gentleman,things were awkward the next morning when he left,a mutual freind told me he liked me but is freaked about my ex(who is still trying to get me back)I saw this guy once since that night and he came to me and said"your killing me",my ex was also there so we had to keep quiet.I have thought of him ever since.So there is this yearly party coming up and my ex and this guy will both be there(I dont mind seeing my ex,for i am over him)but i want to see this other guy in hopes of talking to him again,the problem is he rsvp'd for himself plus a guest,so i am assuming he has a date.Would you still go?
2006-10-13 05:34:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby, Its worth trying. You never really know until you try.
If it happens that he has a date, you keep your cool; who knows, you might find someone else, someone nicer, someone who might love u 4 life-4 who can tell where the wind of destiny blows.
Good luck dear.
2006-10-13 05:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LONG I KNOW BUT WORTH A LOOK - i'd say go, he's shown that he likes u, so perhaps u should remind him what hes missing out on. If he is taking a date to this party the only thing u can do is give it a go, if he has grown a relationship that looks as tho hes settled into, he will tell u so (given hes a gentlemen) and u'd have to bare the consequences. What u should ask urself is - are u prepared 4 the worst? If u don't go your heart will eventually get over it and he'll be added to the what ifs of ur life. if u do go, u have 2 ways in which the situation could turn into something heart breaking or the best thing u could have ever done. Only u can know 4 sure. I'll be hoping 4 the best 4 u. Good luck with whatever u do.
2006-10-13 12:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well go. Just because someone brings a guest doesn't mean they are together or in a serious relationship. If you find out that he still wants to be with you then if your so over your ex maybe you should let him know your interested in this guy so that things aren't so awkward.
2006-10-13 12:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go. He might have a date, but who cares. You can still have fun yourself. Also you never know, it might just be a friend.
I've been invited to parties all the time by my guy friends just because they didnt want to go.
There is also the possiblity that he thinks you might be there and is scared to see you...
If you like him, you have to tell him even if he has a date. Just pull him into private and talk to him. Just make sure this is what you want before you do anything. And if he says he isnt interested then accept that and take him as a friend.
2006-10-13 12:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know what 'could've been' if you don't go. Maybe the 'guest' is just a good friend (to avoid showing up alone). It's possible you'll like her too and then you'll at least have made another friend. And it's also possible he's just waiting to hear from you that you are over your ex and there's not a snowball's chance that you'd get back with him so he avoids the heartache if you'd leave and go back to the ex.
2006-10-13 12:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by cheezehead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go he might be just bring a friend you never know about these things. Go there and looking good make him drool. Don't go up and talk to him but make eye contact so he know you know he's there and let him see you having fun. Make him come to you.He'll want you by the end of the night. Men love strong women who they got to come after. Good luck.
2006-10-13 12:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant read minds he only know what he see s , you with with your ex is why the he gave you the comment [ your killing him ] drop being around the ex your probaly confusing the guy. at the party get a dance with him explain, p s go without the ex
2006-10-13 12:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you need to go. and bring a date!! it will make him want you more if he sees you with someone else. and why are you so worried about your EX finding out. who cares if he knows you said you didn't do anything but cuddle..besides, hes your EX remember?
2006-10-13 12:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by *HEiDi!* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would still go. are you sure he is bringing a date? and even if he is, that is his loss! you go and have fun with your friends! he might not have a date, it might be a friend or something. maybe you will find someone else at the party, let me know how it goes! :)
2006-10-13 12:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by lz_baxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should go. talk to him, and if who is with him isn't his date or if they aren't seeing eachother have him meet you for coffee or something one day so ya'll can talk. if you like him and he likes you ya'll should date no matter what your ex says. there is a reason he is your ex and he should move on.
2006-10-13 12:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by smallz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋