I'm feeling very depressed. Reality has finally set in, I thought women were looking for a man that was polite, generous and trustworthy. Well, my date last night clued me into reality. When I opened the door for her at the restaurant last night, she didn't say Thank you, but brushed her right hand against " me " ! Well I know that was no accident, she was checking out the " package ". When I was paying the tab , she asked me if she could see my wallet, Again, she was checking how many credit cards and cash I had on me..From her " brush at the door against my " package " it was apparent she was overjoyed, but when she saw I only had two credit cards, one was Sears the other visa, she couldn't hide her disappointment ( I actually thought she was going to throw a glass of water in my face ). So where do I find a nice girl where the size of the wallet and package are secondary to the nice guy I am ?
2006-10-13 05:33:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Socialize but stop looking - let the good ones find YOU.
2006-10-13 05:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you looking now? Man! All woman are NOT like that. I care so much more about the man inside than his "package" or wallet. Sex and money truly only satisfy for so long and then you realize that you have a pretty empty relationship. I can't tell you exactly where to look but I'll tell you this... you have to look inside yourself as well. The two things men seem to be most proud of are their "package" and their wallet so you need to stop letting yourself be flattered by those two things because lots of women do learn that those are the ways to "get" a man! Take note of women who compliment you on the kind deed you did for someone or the way you handle yourself under stress....etc. Those are the women who are going to notice and care about the truly important things.
2006-10-13 05:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweetredbeachlvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say women look for those kinds of things is a generalization. And it's painfully obvious you slipped in the "overjoyed" bit about your package as a boast in the hopes that you will now be deluged with flirty messages by women claiming to be the sweet girl you are looking for. And, unfortunately, I've no doubt some will respond in that way.
2006-10-13 05:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Leda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me correct these people on here, most GIRLS are like that. A WOMAN on the other hand won't be like that. A woman already knows how to please herself and has her own money, therefore she doesn't "need" a man. She has a man because she wants to share her life with him. She wants someone who will make her laugh and be there for her when she cries. Next time you are looking for a female to take out, pay attention to how she's dressed and how she carries herself. It will be a big indicator as to whether or not you should waste your time on her. Someone wearing a lot of make-up and wearing the latest trend in clothes and apparel is basically looking for a man to buy her more. (Typical high maintenance chicks.) Good luck on your search.
2006-10-13 06:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't look twice at someone that wasn't beautiful on the inside. I couldn't care less what they have monetarily speaking. But that's just me. It takes a lot of different people to make the world go around. You'll find the right one eventually and then it will be really good! Best Wishes.
2006-10-13 05:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are not looking for package/wallet. dont get me wrong money is nice but it is not everything, which these people will soon find out when they are grey and old. Stop looking for high maintance women, be yourself and the right woman will pop into your life
2006-10-13 05:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry you had to experience such an ordeal like that with your date. Typically, all women aren't like that. Your date should of had a glass of water thrown in her face for being so rude.
I should be so lucky as to find a handsome, polite man who would open the door for me. I guess those days are gone. But don't dispare, there are plenty of women out there looking for a gentleman such as yourself, you just have to be patient.
By the way, there hasn't been a day go by that men aren't staring at my breast. i guess women like to look at ( packages) and men like to look at breast.
2006-10-13 05:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some fake credit cards and fill your wallet, then shove some socks down your pants that should work... have you ever thought that it might be the girls you are asking out, are you going out with them because you think that they are nice girls or are you going out with them because they are hot and you want to get some...
2006-10-13 05:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋