So you start dating again and meet someone really nice, then three others come along. So begins the problem. You kinda want to date only one but friends say to keep options open. You do but then you don't. Do you tell the first one that your dating other people, or keep your mouth shut and see where each may lead? How do you do all of that w/o getting lost?
2006-10-13 05:30:59 · 8 answers · asked by Hot one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on what you have established with the first one. If they are it, then go with the flow...
other people telling you what to do, is so not worth listening to. They tend to transfer their insecurities your way and say all kinds of stuff not relevant to your situation....
Once you are dating, I think you relax a little and because you are seeing someone, all of a sudden you are a hot prospect... where were these other 3 before?????....
Slow down, enjoy your scene with the first one....
If it doesn't work out then ask out the next one...
You can get a rep as a player if you jump around too much and string along too many people.
By the way " keep your options open" what does it mean????
You could be doing that forever and miss the boat completely on a great relationship....
2006-10-13 05:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, don't start dating anyone else, because that would be wrong to the girl that you recently started dating, unless it's understood that the relationship is an open relationship. Forget what your friends are saying because if you try to juggle all three you will be the one that's getting hurt not your immature friends. If you do decide to date all three, which is against my advice, what if when you guys are out in public see the other girl or are intimate and you say someone else's name??? Think about it is it worth it???????
2006-10-13 05:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by alleybug_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer. You should choose one as quickly as possible, if your really good playing the field then i say go for it but girls always manage to find out so save yourself the trouble and pick someone fast. Oh also i know what you mean. Everytime you find something like a job or a partner and all of a suddent other jobs and partners start poping out of nowhere. I guess that is life. But it could also mean that the girls find you more desriable because you snag one, and other girls are thinking "if he has a girlfriend maybe he is not a bad person, creep, perv, etc.... at all." That is my long two cent.
2006-10-13 05:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Smartyboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer to your question is one word. TEMPTATION. Let me tell you like this. This is a saying my Daddy used to tell me many years ago. "The grass may be greener on the other side, but it could also be a septic tank over there." Best thing to do is follow your heart. And most importantly, if you start a relationship with one girl...be faithful to her.
2006-10-13 05:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always get confused on this issue. You want to see of the relationship will go anywhere, but if you're not giving it 100% then what's the point of being in it? Honestly, I haven't figured this one out yet!
2006-10-13 05:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by IndianGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people enjoy trying to get what they cant have....its like a test from the fairy faithful witch on whether you are gonna be failthful or not....if you are really into the person you are with then, tell the other chicks to f*&$ off and if not, then have fun and date....just be open or careful...-good luck!
2006-10-13 05:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're more attractive to people when they see that you can get someone. Look at married people. I got hit on more when I got married than ever when I was single.
2006-10-13 05:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by MCS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like only successful men that is why. and since you got the benefit of choise you should chose the one you prefer and leave the other girls to find their luck somewhere else.
2006-10-13 05:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamcaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋