I dated this guy for 7 months and he got to where he was being verbaly abbusive. I told him to get out and ever since this happend he wont leave me alone..
2006-10-13 05:25:03 · 30 answers · asked by blue eyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I should start a business that rents new boyfriends to ladies like you. They will be large men with an entourage. Hmmm.
You should let him know that it REALLY bothers you. If it stays abusive, get legal help.
2006-10-13 05:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the same situation if he is verbaly abbusive it can end up physichal tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone you will be calling the police on him and get his a** hauled of to jail
2006-10-13 12:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesn't stop stalking you that you will go to court and get a restraining order against him. This angry loser will continue to harrass you if you don't take a stand. In the meantime google "stalkers" and read everything you can about the 'revengeful stalker'. You might consider getting an answering machine at home and not picking up when he calls. If he calls at your work, hang up on him. Vary your route to work and try to leave work with a "buddy". Be careful because revengeful stalkers might "escalate" their behavior. Good Luck!
2006-10-13 12:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terrible situation. Tell him that you are through with him. If he continues to persue you with verbaly abusive mannerisms, tell him you will get a restraining order. of course you don't neccesarily need to do this unless it is very serious, but I'm sure the threat in itself will get him off your back.
2006-10-13 12:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by glamblondie88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have you been completely clear that it's OVER and you want him to go away? Sometimes we aren't clear enough and this can give mixed impressions to the other person involved. If so, ignore him! Don't pay any attention to him and hopefully he will get the hint. If this doesn't work see if there are any legal steps you can take to get him to stay away from you. I am not sure if you can get a restraining order or not, but it's worth a shot if he is really threatening you. Good luck.
2006-10-13 12:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he messed up if he is a nice guy dont get a restraining order thats just wrong he might really have feelings for you and wants to say sorry and show you that he cares if you had any feelings for him. i think you should give him another chance and if it happens again then you have to do something. but we are only human we all make mistakes its us that forgive that are the bigger people
2006-10-13 12:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat tell him you can't take the verbal abuse and can't care for a man that does that. You are moving on in your life and he isn't in it. If he continues hang up on him of if you caller ID don't answer, if he knocks on the door don't answer. Be sure to have a friend with you shopping till he gets the message. Good Luck
2006-10-13 12:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Butch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful when you are out, especially if he is like stalker type. If he is showing up at places where you are you need to do something high up about that. Change you number. Don't entertain any conversation with him. Just tell him it's over rand there is no getting back together, and for him to move on.
2006-10-13 12:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Restraining order from your local courthouse.
Walk in, write up what he's doing, get immediate order.
The law doesnt fool around with guys like this anymore...because they have seen how far they can go.
2006-10-13 12:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order
2006-10-13 12:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋