i am a 28 yr old guy.... my friend is 17.... we had been best friends for 3-4yrs now.... we shared almost every secrets of our lifes 2gether... and talk for at least hrs every day... but recently, we have both been behaving strangely.... we seems to avoid each other.... she will like suddenly find an excuse to avoid mi when we just happen to be side my side talking too close..... we often are close when talking in the past... i nvr happen b4....
i felt its freaking weird.... is she interested in me??? i dun wan to start anything with her... our age differs too much... but she is a very important friend to me.... i dun wan to lose her as my best friend.... wat can i do????
2006-10-13 05:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by kelvin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked her what happened b4, but she just refuse to reply mi why... she ask me not to ask her anymore cause she dun want to end up in a quarrel with me... what should i do???
2006-10-13 05:38:06 · update #1
She might be into you, or she may be mad at you for some reason. You may want to just talk to her about it.
2006-10-13 05:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was good friends with a 25yr old when I was 15. It was cool because he was an older man. By the time I was 18 and he was 28, I saw him more as a creepy man than the sexy older guy. I stopped talking to him. Besides, people change so much when they are that young. The person she was at 14 is probably very different from who she is now.
2006-10-13 12:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dasher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is interested in you...but I wouldn't. There is too big of an age difference between the two of you. If you don't want to ruin the friendship just let her down easy and as nicely as you can but don't make up any BS excuse or lie to tell her. That just makes it worse...
2006-10-13 12:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me the 'friendship' feelings turned into something more.
She doesn't know what to do about it so she's avoiding you and
acting weird. I'd say the best thing to do is talk to her about it.
Tell her how you feel and get it out in the open so she know
where things stand..
2006-10-13 12:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has bad breath and doesn't want to breath on you. maybe she's gotten some vibes from you that you like her...
either way, you probably aren't imagining that she's avoiding you at least a little bit. maybe ask her if everything's alright, if you did something that has bothered her lately. just be upfront. i like it when guys bring that up, one guy i was seeing once was like "why do you not let me get close to you?" and i didn't even realize i was doing that until he told me!
good luck. and i know you said you don't like her that way... well if you do, or decide you do... you have one more year to go!
2006-10-13 12:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might feels tat u interested in her although u have no intention to. U need to tell straight to her that u treat her as a soul mate.
2006-10-13 12:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by jass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comunication is the best thing...so go to her and without any fear ... tell her about ur problem.if she's as a good friend as you say she is... she will undedrstand and tell u what she feels
2006-10-13 12:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy might be a pervert but when he tells you something you have to trust him?
2006-10-13 12:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by Puerto Rican Sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-13 12:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by bearbigkidben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋