2006-10-13 04:48:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't trip just a pump and dump between friends right?No obligation..
2006-10-13 04:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by noimok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the problem with infatuation!! Fantasy usually goes along with it and then when the real thing comes around it's kinda a let down. Maybe she was nervous and things will get better.
As far as you moral obligation goes... if you aren't happy aren't you kinda obligated to do the right thing for both of you? Since you also had a friendship, probably a discussion would be best, maybe you can atleast preserve the friendship.
2006-10-13 11:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is what happens when you over think something to the point of no return. So the reality hasnt lived up to the fantasy? What to do? Why isnt sex charming with her? Is there something you can do to make it better? Surely you cannot lay all the blame onto her? If you had a friendship prior to becoming intimate, you may be in a situation where you can speak about such shortcomings. Maybe she isnt being satisfied either.. I think communication is the key to this dillemma.. and if you liked her that much to begin with, surely it will be fun to work on the sex life together.. and in time, who knows you both might love it.
2006-10-13 11:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you're either crazy, a jerk, or just plain dumb. moral obligation? dump a girl cuz sex sucks? think about it. if you like the girl, stay with her. sex can be improved. that's why there are guide books around. the sex part may be her fault, may not be just her fault, maybe you're not good at it yourself. people have different preferences. she likes this, you don't. you wanna try that, she doesn't. if you like the girl and think it's worth a try, give it time and sex will get better when you tell her what you like and she does the same.
2006-10-13 15:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What moral obligation would that be?? Wake up. A relationship has to be agreeable to both in all areas. Stay friends, or just break up...Think about your feelings for the future.
2006-10-13 11:52:58 · answer #5 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even like this girl? just 'dumping' someone coz the sex wasnt great the first time with her is not a good reason. you need to get to know each other better and that only happens with every time you share this together.
of course, if you only had sex to test the water then i would just own up to it and break it off. none of this morality cr*p.
2006-10-13 11:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moral obligation ? No neither one of you had any morals when you decided to have sex! What makes you think you owe each other anything? Chalk it up to experience, unless she is pregnant?
2006-10-13 11:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no moral obligation to have sex with friends
2006-10-13 11:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by sexyandsingle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What moral obligation??? Are you married? Is she pregnant? If you don't want her, be honest (you have a moral obligation to yourself to be honest).
2006-10-13 11:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in that situation before. do i know you?, why were you morally obligated, did she have something you wanted, and you used her to get it, and now you feel guilty?, please explain. but i will say this. dont be intimidated by this person, they cant desroy you, if they could, they wouldve done it by now, why cant you tell this person no. i think i know you. and if its you, im very sorry that you felt that way, i wanted your mind, not your sympathy, or gratitude.youve been forgiven. thankyou.
2006-10-13 11:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋