Tell her shes fat?

Question

How would you tell a girl that she is overweight without huting her feelings?

Answer 1

wow... Rude...

First off, I think she's gathered the fact she is overweight and for you to think you have some sort of superiority to point that out to her makes you an idiotic self-centered jerk.

Have a good day and look up the definition of empathy.

Answer 2

Are you friends with this girl or dating her? It's different as you know how to deal with one better than the other. However, the first thing you have to find out if you're the only who thinks that or if she agrees with you. If she is happy with the way she is, then there is nothing you can do about it. If she is unhappy, then there is room for discussion and you can tell her that she is overweight. A good way to start would be by taking her out to dinner in a super healthy restaurant. Somewhere where they have no fries/steak and the likes. But food made properly. See how she reacts.
If she is your girlfriend, be gentle. No girl likes being told she's fat and her bf doesnt like the way she looks, but if you put it well she might see the point. Also, if you are dating her, you need to help her lose the weight. Take her for walks, change the way you're both living, less takeout food etc. In a few months you can defo see a difference. :)

Answer 3

Tell her that u want 2 start at the gym, but u want her 2 go with... U don't want 2 go on your own and u think u need the exercise cause u r so unfit... or something like that.. I'm a girl a little bit overweight and I would like some1 asking me to join them... This is also a way of showing your support.

Good luck and enjoy the exercise...

Answer 4

Now you are also treating her like she is stupid. If the girl is overweight, she already knows, so what is you motive in telling her something she already knows. Or perhaps you think she would be better if she were less heavy? I do not understand your thinking. Oh by the way have you considered doing any thing about your nose, I could give you the name of an excellent plastic surgeon,

Answer 5

My EX used to winge all the time about being too fat ( she was a UK size 8 ) so not fat at all. One day she was saying she was fat she got up off the sofa and wandered into the kitchen. I needed another beer and jokely said oi Tumbster can you grab me a beer. **** it was like world war III I couldnt appologise enough.

They dont like being called names like tubster or fatty or bloater or a combination eg Tubby Bloater or Fatty Tubster.

Answer 6

That's impossible. You cannot tell a woman she is fat without hurting her feelings. You can, however, try to lead a healthier lifestyle with her. You can exercise with her, suggest a walk, for example. But if this a person whose feelings you value don't say "You're Fat."

Answer 7

DON'T TELL HER. I'm serious. If you do you will hurt her feelings I know cuz I've been there. She knows she's big and guess what? Big is Beautiful. You can help by taking her walking in the park, in the neighborhood, or go to the mall. Trust me she'll know that you care not by hurting her but by helping her. Good Luck!

Answer 8

You don't. Girls know when they are overweight. They don't need someone to tell them. If you want to take an active role in helping, then you should suggest walks (together) and fixing more healthy meals (together).

Answer 9

she already knows, so why do you think she needs to hear it from you? just be supportive, and keep your mouth shut. maybe ask if she wants to join you on a walk or something, but just don't come out and be like HEY YOUR FAT. good luck, and remember to be nice.

Answer 10

Tell her to put down the double Whoppers with cheese, get off her fat azz, and start jogging or something.

Tough love.