2 years with him he left me 3 weeks ago we lived together and yes we had our bad times. he always came back after 5 days or so when i would call him this time every nite callin askin to return home he never came back.so i went cold turkey for a wekk no calls no nothing..advise from yahoo users..ok i do have his belongings here..he calle me real early one day in morn saying im callin to find out when i can get my things..called everday day in morn for 3 days sayin same thing..ok..so i decided to call him to get answrs to what we gonna do.we talked yesterday ofcourse i cried.said i love dhim and are u in love with dou luv me etc..he said yes..i do.i aske d do u have someon he says no but who knows.then i said can i see u he said meet me i said ok..he calls later on saying bring me this n that and i said ok .but he asked me tobring something else i said no n he got uptight.then i asked when we see eachother ima hug u n kiss u etc..n he said im not seein u for all that.what is that?
2006-10-13 04:45:21 · 5 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we argued n yelled on phone if he loves me like he says why is he cruel and has no feelings when i cry?why wouldnt he want to kiss me and hugg me?
2006-10-13 04:46:41 · update #1
***what should i do i kinda moved on but i love him and now when i call him he dont pick up mabey cheating too can he be cheating?
2006-10-13 05:04:12 · update #2
i asked if he will come home his reply i dont wantto live with u nomore after 2 years livin with me hmm
2006-10-13 05:06:36 · update #3
It appears to me that you both are playin' games, and it is so obvious that it's over. I'd say if he comes and goes, then he is wanting to do what he wants when he wants to. I just got out of a situation like that and believe me, it is not worth it. Please think about the emotional stress you are going through from this.
I would suggest, quit speaking with and seeing him period. Take his stuff to him to where he can receive it, but you don't have to see him. You need to make a clean break. Look, it's been two months for me after four years and I have moved on. It was ruff and I still have bad days every so often, but we learn to lick our wounds and move on. Isn't that the way our mothers brought us up, and aren't women of today very independent? You can do it, and before you know it you will meet mister right. In the mean time use this time to pull yourself together. good luck.....
2006-10-13 05:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn the following and you will make better choices in men: People are what they do , not what they say. If he tells you he loves you and then he behaves cruelly to you then his behavior is what you watch and then act accordingly. It sounds as if he enjoys playing mind games with you and keeping you off kilter. It also sounds as if he's emotionally abusing you. Find a local women's crisis center and learn about emotional/psychological "battery". You also need to get some counseling about your 'willingness' to tolerate his behavior and to address your low self-esteem. Good luck!
2006-10-13 04:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose him. He is just keepin you around until somethin' he likes better comes around. Then if nuthin better than you comes around, he "settles" for you. What a loser he is. Put his crap in a bag and leave it on the porch or better yet...drop it off at his house or his parents.
2006-10-13 04:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is WAY too short for all this drama.
Move on.
2006-10-13 04:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM .
DON,T GIVE NOTHING BACK.
JUST HOLD IT
2006-10-13 05:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋