I really like this girl at school and I am in her dance class to. so we see eachother alot and we are friends and I want to be more I don't know if she likes me but from want I know she probably doesn't and I want to know if she does. So I am gonna ask some of my friends to ask her if she likes anyone in the school. If she says me I will ask her out but if she doesn't what should I do . should I ask her out should I tell her I like her please give me advice thanks.
2006-10-13 04:03:04 · 14 answers · asked by Hollister Dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dating in High School is tricky! I can't believe you guys still get your friends to ask if someone likes you! That's hysterical, cuz I use to do the same thing!!! Some things never change!
ok... on to your question... Women cannot resist men who are kind, gentle, curteous, and most of all, funny! Women also like to hear their name, and hear compliments.
If you are in the same dance class, is there any way you can ask her to dance with you??? Wow! that's an automatic in! Women love it when men take charge too!
so, you ask her to dance, and then... compliment her! say her name first, and then something like, your hair looks really nice today, or gee, you smell good. make it personal! Then ask her a question about herself - girls love to talk about themselves. As long as you are willing to listen, they will talk. If she mentions something interesting, ask her for more details.
If you can make her feel good about herself while she is with you, she will come back for more. Just like a moth to a flame!
Good luck Holister!
2006-10-13 04:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by DaBoomvang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't ask your friends to ask her! That's definitely not cool man!! Be a man about it and decide to let her know that your interested!! Get to know her better chat to her more !! Flirt! Flatter her sweep her off her feet! Don't wait to get permission.Women don't like men that are unsure of themselves we want you to take the lead and make us feel like we are the best thing that has ever happened to you!! Just be brave and confident and subtle. But first get close to her! Make her laugh make her smile! Be interested in everything that she does! Make her feel important and Loved and Special!! Most importantly make it your business to become her best friend! Because that where the relationship starts by you being able to chat with her like a friend!! But don't go too much to the friend side or else you'll lose her for good. Just give it your best shot. And if it doesn't work at least you'll never kick yourself for not giving it your best!
2006-10-13 11:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say first off, don't assume she doesn't like you, you don't know. Plus by thinking things like that you are contributing to a negative self fullfilling prophecy (def: a prediction or expectation of an event that makes the outcome more likely to occur than would otherwise have been the case) You need to produce a positive one, and think that why wouldn't she want to go out with me? I know she likes me!
Next, if you want to ask her somthing, ask her yourself - girls hate when they get asked things through the grapevine - it makes you appear un confident. So grow some balls, and go ask her yourself.
2006-10-13 11:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Stasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her, but not in a way that comes on too strong and scares her away. A simple, "I thought we could have coffee some time, just the two of us" will probably get the message across. Good luck :)
Best Regards,
Holly
2006-10-13 11:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is anything you wanna know about her, you better ask by yourself, not through your friends. Some girl doesn't like it...
Anyway, just ask her out and express your feelings. If you don't say something, she won't know anything.
2006-10-13 11:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by The Wondering Why 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her!!! make friends with her!! if youre not open to asking her yourself, how will you be with her in a relationship?? if shes one of the nice girls *you know, not a snob* she will appreciate your courage on asking her. if at most, dont stop talking to her if she doesnt like you. continue on being her friend. cause to alot of girls *believe me* friendships with guys are worth more than relationships with them. they can be more open with friends. be there for her, and im sure shell see youre a great guy. *if she doesnt see it already.*
GoOd LuCk!!~
2006-10-13 11:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by ~*LoSt*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS A FRIEND ASK HER TO GET A BITE TO EAT AFTER SCHOOL OR ASK HER TO A MOVIE JUST AS A FRIEND. SEE HOW THINGS GO. GIRLS ARE FUNNY AT THIS AGE. CAUSE THEY MAY LIKE U TODAY AND NOT LIKE U TOMORROW. JUST BE A FRIEND AND IF THE DOOR OPEN TO BE MORE GO FOR IT!
2006-10-13 11:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by bleudivabubbles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if she doesnt like you then here is the plan. for like a month show her how crazy you are about her, u know be like a dog after her, be romantic and send her poems, give her flowers, chocolates, dedicate her songs..do all that and more!while u do that she will keep on saying "oh thanx but I told you I dont like you,just as a friend, stop doing these things" and one day ater1 or 2 months change with her.dont treat her badly!but treat her with indiference, be nice but at the same moment act like u dont give a **** about her. after that, of she didnt like you before, she will start, at least, being interested about you!believe me. she will be thinking "what happened?? why did he stop being inlove with me?" she will start to miss you being after her like a dog, and also its about EGO...she will get desesperate!
2006-10-13 11:13:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off you shuld get the guts to ask her yourself second i know where your coming from my guy friend Alex that graduated were friends but i want more but he does too but in school we were friends but i also think if u date a friend i think it ruins the relationship with them
2006-10-13 11:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your friends ask her that. that going to ranin your friendship with her write her a letter tell her how you feel about her and if she comes up to you and saids she like u or she write u back and said she like u too the ask her out.
2006-10-13 11:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by dollface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋