ok, so I met this guy on the net...for several weeks we chatted...emailed...talked occassionally on the phone...
we talked about simple things, shared pics, Ideas, views, nothing sexual, nothing too personal
he calles me early one weekend morning, while Im still asleep...I dont remember the call, he tells me later, that I said "I love you"...I dont remeber...I answered I did, as a friend...since that time, the only communication we have had was 2 emails...from me...and one very tense msg
can anyone explain what happened...any ideas?
2006-10-13 03:57:38 · 13 answers · asked by bopddbop 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He obviously liked you and since your feelings weren't as strong he decided to back up a little bit
2006-10-13 04:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by realchikk101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are afraid of commitment. He's in the flirty stage and he thinks you're not. He probably has you coined as "psycho-chick" If so, sending him consective e-mails just increases his suspicion- Girl, JUST MOVE ON! ' sides who really know anyone you talk to on a computer- for 6 moths I had an entire chat room thinking I'm a guy..till I got bored...
2006-10-13 11:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by red2queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he was trying to move your friendship into a whole new territory - and trying to use something you may or may not have said in your sleep, against you. That's not just rude, but also creepy. I'm sorry to tell you, but I think you should move on in a different direction. This guy is obviously manipulative and very insecure.
Best Regards,
Holly
2006-10-13 10:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time - you tried to explain and if he can't accept that then move on - he obviously isn't looking for anything to even ever get serious someday down the road.
2006-10-13 11:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by trahub66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would watch out for that type of things because if you don't remember what happened that is a bag thing b/c he could have asked for your address to find you at it might sound dum but it does happen
2006-10-13 11:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bratteny69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did say it and it freaked him out. Well that's a normal guy for you. There's not much you can do if it's not meant to be then it's just not meant to be.
2006-10-13 11:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful so many women and teens have be killed by doing what your thinking about doing if you decide to meet him make sure you take along a friend male if possible,better safe then sorry
2006-10-13 11:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
evidently you were sleep talking. Tell him when he called you must have been dreaming about your dream guy and that he shouldn't read into like he obviously is.
2006-10-13 11:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happened, he need you but you are not sure from him ... so what you think if you in love with him ..you well know
2006-10-13 11:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by waled almaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a crush on you, but like always, bewary of the predator male online. he may just have a fetish for fickle minded girls!
2006-10-13 11:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by blizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋