we arent going to be able to go to their wedding, my boyfriend dosent feel the need to RSVP , but i think we need to , woudl it be appropiate for me to email hes friend and tell him we arent going to hes wedding ? i kinda know him and have occasionally talked to him at partys-
2006-10-13 03:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
this person thought enough of you to invite you. it is not so difficult to rsvp.
2006-10-13 03:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Teufel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should send back the RSVP card if they sent one out. If they didn't send one out then you really are not obligated to RSVP, although being a friend I think that it would be the right thing to do. It really doesn't matter if it's the first marriage or the 10th if they are having a wedding and invited you then RSVP. :)
Good Luck.
2006-10-13 10:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by trahub66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think one of you should rsvp with a no. when people are planning weddings, it's kind of a hassle, you know? it's irritating when people don't rsvp cuz you don't know if they're coming or not, if they just forgot to rsvp and you end up calling people you haven't heard from amidst the millions of other things you're trying to accomplish to get everything done. just rsvp. it's the nice thing to do.
2006-10-13 11:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by practicalwizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you cannot attend the wedding that an RSVP is the very least that you can do. If they thought enough about you to invite you, you should at least be kind enough to let them know that you won't be attending.
2006-10-15 07:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately notify his friend whether or not you are going to make it or not. If you don't respond, they will probably call you to find out if you are coming anyway. They use the RSVP cards to get a more exact count of guests to their caterers and bartenders.
2006-10-13 11:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is proper etiquette. You should return the RSVP and notify the Bride and Groom that you will not be able to attend.
2006-10-13 11:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RSVPing means replying yes OR no. You have to give them an answer-- one or the other. It is RUDE to not answer an invitation with an RSVP.
2006-10-13 18:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please at least RSVP. That is a long time friend, & U sort of know him. Ask your guy how would he feel if it was him instead? Get him thinking.
2006-10-13 10:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? Why doesn't your bf wants to tell his friend he won't go to the wedding?
Just tell them you can't make it that day. That's the least you can do. If you don't want to tell the right reason, don't but at least let them know...
2006-10-13 10:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Eyeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely still need to RSVP. It would be rude not to.
2006-10-13 11:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by betterlife_travel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋