I am 15 yrs old, yr 10 of high school, this girl has got to my mind, unlike any other girl that has ever got to my mind, I'm a relatively shy guy, and so I don't talk to her much, I've been in love with her for almost but not quite 2 years.
I have had crushes before, but this is different, i know, i can't stand not seeing her for more than a week, when in a crowded room, she is the first face i see, I think of her as a princess among angels. The one problem is she does not like me the same way i do. When i treat her like how i feel about her, she finds it a bit creepy, but when I just be a tiny bit nice, she finds it sweet, and smiles at me.
I believe her to be the love of my life, but when i say "i love you" she finds it creepy or gets a bit annoyed or something, same with when i treat her like how i feel about her.
Thanks in advance.
Might not be detailed enough, because this is a really complex situation I am experiencing. That is why i need the help of you ppl.
2006-10-13 03:44:29 · 6 answers · asked by Spring is Awesome 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to slow down a little. Be sweet, but don't get into the heavy stuff. Remember, one step at a time.
2006-10-13 04:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is part of being in high school. I can tell you by personal experience that girls want someone who will treat them nice but that it not all over them. Don't tell her you love her, that is the worst thing you can do. She just needs someone to be there for her. First be her friend, she needs to know that if she ever needs anything she can count on you. That is how a relationship grows. Make her need you and miss you when you are not around. Do small gestures, but don't go over board. Girls like a guy who will put up somewhat of a fight, don't make it too easy for her.
2006-10-13 03:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww how cute! However, I do see how she might find it creepy if you guys don't talk that much but you still say you love her. Consider being her friend first and leave all that "love" aside and just have fun! Then later on when she starts to have feelings for you then just go along with it. I'm sure you would rather have her as a friend then have her have nothing to do with you (assuming you keep creepin her out like that!)
2006-10-13 03:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things flow naturally. Forget about preconceptions and expectations. Just be yourself and let things happen as normal as possible.
It's normal to follow in love, but the more attention you pay to your thoughts the more you'll energize them, so try to focus in other things and if this girl is in your destiny, trust in yourself because she will be with you...
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-13 03:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are blowing it, you not even dating her and you tell her you luv her, that wud creep any girl out, if you cant get to dating it aint gonna happen, woman like strong men that are sweet and loyal, find out what woman want/need in a man and become that man then u mite have a chance, also it does not seeem like you know her well enuf to luv her, she cud be a nitemare for all you know, slow down bro
2006-10-13 03:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her that you like her and there is no response, then she obviously isn't interested, but keep on trying, talk to her as a friend, be yourself and maybe you'll be lucky.
2006-10-13 03:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋