I asked a girl out last week and she turned me down, but now she want have anything to do with me. Meaning, she want look at me or talk to me. You see we use to talk with each other. Is she playing hard to get or just doesn't want anything to do with me?
2006-10-13 03:38:37 · 14 answers · asked by rbaallen 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
she is trying to avoid an embarrassing situation. she doesn't want to hurt you anymore than she already has. you need to let her know that it is alright and that you still want to be friends
2006-10-13 08:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by helenmnorth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is "were u and her real close?" and if so i dont think she's playin hard to get...she just probably feels weird, cause if 1 of my closes friend asked me out it would b ocward because i never looked at him like that...but then a again she might not want to talk to u because she doesnt want u to continue liking her and being around her does that so she might think that avoiding u is best so u can kinda get over it, since she 's not feeling the same!
2006-10-13 03:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just a little embarrassed and doesn't know how to deal with it. It sounds like she does not want anything more than friendship. Let her know there are no hard feelings and give her some time, things should return to normal.
2006-10-13 03:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by M.B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You scared her, now she doesn't know how to react to U. Give her some time, nice looks, hellos, but do not push her. Maybe a small nice note. If ya talked before she will eventually talk to you again. Maybe she is feeling guilty about how she is treating U?
2006-10-13 03:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take from me a 13 year old girl. She most likly liked being fJUST friends. When you asked her out you put her in an uncomfortable position. Now she is most likly too embaressed to talk to you.
2006-10-13 09:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to go out with you. By the way, the category you used is "grade school", I hope you're not in 5th grade.
2006-10-13 03:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is making it perfectly clear she does not want to go out with you. She'll get back to talking with you later.
2006-10-13 03:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a game that most girls in this situation would like to play. Just be cool. be your own self. if she really wants to be aquainted with you, then she will come and talk to you of her own accord.
2006-10-13 03:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by The Navigator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's prob. just nervious around you now. Just start talking to her even if she doesnt talk back. If you guys were friends befor then its not going to stop you now.
2006-10-13 07:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by loveznkisssz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and play hard to get right back at her. And do remember don't give up.... keep tryin
2006-10-13 03:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by grandturismo09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋