but he is really a nice person, has manners, chivilarious, treats you with respect, great smile, takes care of himself, financially sound and stable, but some of his characteristics are kind of off the wall, a little embarrassing at times and are not attracted physically to him. Or would you try to find someone who is more what you are looking for? This is just general question, to see how people pick their partners or stay in a relationship like this one.
2006-10-13 03:27:16 · 19 answers · asked by mariajd3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am fairly accepting of people as they are, quirks and all, and will work with the things I don't like. That's part of what being in a relationship is about because you aren't going to be meeting the perfect person. We all have flaws and no one person is going to meet all the criteria we have for the perfect partner.
Now if you can work with their flaws, then you can help make what is good about that person overcome what is not so good. It takes communication, understanding, respect and the desire to want to work with someone.
It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. Give this person a try and, at the least, you will have a friend coming out of it.
2006-10-13 03:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it man! You found "some of his characteristics are kind of off the wall, a little embarrassing at times..." sooner or later you will find more things in him that you don't like. So, go for another guy. The relationship won't last long if you are kind of "looking down" at him for some of his characters. I don't think you wanna marry a man you find embarrassing with...
2006-10-13 03:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by The Wondering Why 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around for what you want. Don't settle unless you want too. Everybody has some good qualities but sometimes they are just missing that one important thing that makes or breaks it. If you are not attracted to this person sexually then it won't go any farther then a friendship. So keep it at that! And find exactly what you're looking for before you commit to someone.
2006-10-13 03:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by His Dudeness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its is hard to find good guys but the physical part is huge and vital part to me at least. There is no way I could be sexual with someone I am not attracted to and I have to have that in a relationship. I have tons of friends that are guys and would treat like a queen but they are kinda of replusive to me. So I guess the answer would be no I could not. It would not be fair to hurt or mistreat and use someone else. I like to be true to not only myself but others.
2006-10-13 03:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could, at least not for long. I like quirky personalities, but if there is little or no attraction then I figure I will eventually become attracted to someone else and potentially hurt whomever I am dating.
2006-10-13 03:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would depend upon what you call "embarrassing". If he chews with his mouth open or scratches himself in public, yeah, he's off the list.
I'd like to think that I were opened minded enough to go out once. Either it works or it doesn't, but you don't know until you try.
2006-10-13 03:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything, but I would want to be attracted to him in some way at least. If I'm not attracted at least a little then I'm just not interested.
2006-10-13 03:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea to date somebody who is not the kind of guy you like only if you want to have a new friend is OK, It has to be chemistry to make something romantic grow.....think about it!!!
2006-10-13 03:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am not physically attracted to him, I won't date him. Looks aren't everything, but there needs to be an attraction there.
2006-10-13 03:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHH yeah! My ex boyfriend develop right into a 'freak' he wore black outfits, saggy outfits, listened to rock, smoked pot, and have been given in all varieties of hassle. We have been appropriate opposites. i develop into 'preppy' listened to r&b and rap, never have been given in hassle, never did drugs. i presumed I enjoyed him, yet deeep down I Knew, continually that i could never marry him, i could never have young toddlers with him, specially circumstances as a results of way he acted i develop into embarrassed to be with him. That develop into demanding!
2016-12-08 14:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by fette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋