why do guys act like they like you but then say he doesnt want a girlfriend??
its confusing and it HURTS, right in the heart!!
and if anyone asks i dont know why girls lead guys on maybe for sex!!
i dont know cause i aint that type, i like a guy for a reason!!
2006-10-13 03:18:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey girl,
Its not generically the guys, it is all about each individual person. You just haven't met mr right yet. He will turn up when you least expect it. So don't change your ways, just be sure what you want and don't accept second best.
Send me an email if you want to talk
Good luck
xx
2006-10-13 03:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by oooooo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guys who do that are immature. Once you "discover" that a guy isn't really into you, it's best to not cry over spilled milk. Write him off as an immature jerk and move on to someone who's worthy of your attention...
2006-10-13 03:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Turn this around to a guys point of view and I feel exactly like you do!
Obviously this is a human rather than a male or female thing. I hope we both find people worthy of us! ;-)
2006-10-13 03:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Josie, sorry your having such bad luck. Keep your head up and never stop trying. To be honest women are just as guilty of this as men, maybe just not as much. Stay confident, you will find a good man.
2006-10-13 03:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did like you at first, but later he realized that you were not his type, so he is trying to let you down easily.
Either that, or he was just flirting with everyone for fun, and he didn't realize that you were taking him seriously.
From looking at your questions, it appears that you get too attached to someone too quickly. In short, you let your expections get too high regarding someone that you don't know well enough yet to know if you like them or not. If you are too excited around someone that you just met and don't really know, it can come off as needy or clingy.
If you come off as needy or desperate, that scares people off.
2006-10-13 03:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Randy G 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Because we don't want to settle down but we do want to keep sleeping with you (and anyone else for that matter) and we can't do so most of the time by telling the truth. At least that's what we think.
But I have found that it is easier to just tell it like it is. Yet no matter how hard you try feelings get involed even if you warn the woman in question that "I'm only in it for the sex."
2006-10-13 03:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by curtaincaller 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
It's not guys and it's not girls. It's people as individuals. Find better people and don't put an entire gender in the crap tank because of an individual or individuals.
2006-10-13 03:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Girls wear tight clothes, make-up, bras to make their "assets" look bigger and better. It goes two ways. If you want a sincere person, look at their heart and all of the outward clues that tell you what kind of person they are.
2006-10-13 03:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they want you to show them why you love them & not just tell them. It's like saying "Oh that celebraty is hot...." you like them,but its obvious with a usuall age difference that you can't date them & etc. If you really like someone show them! otherwise it's just a complement they hear everyday. Good Luck-
2006-10-13 03:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
it's all about the chase. They all are still trying to figure out how much game they have.
2006-10-13 03:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋