Any foreplay tips (not involving the privates)- touching, talking, whatever?

Question

you know, where do guys like to be touched, and how, and do you want us to take control of the situation, or rather be submissive....anything that really drives you crazy? I hate going straight into the action without some teasing involved.

Answer 1

Personally I like a dominant woman, not overbearing, but gently leading the way.
Kisses all over my body drive me wild, and its always nice to tell your guy what its doing to you and what you'd like him to do to you. As well as guiding him for your pleasure, I can promise you that this is a huge turn on for a guy aswell.

Hope that this helps you.

Answer 2

Run the tip of your tongue up under his upper lip right at his nose. This is a very sensitive spot. tongue in the ear is always good for a rise. inner thighs are just as sensitive on a man as a woman. Finger tips can do anything a tongue can do except present wetness. Whispering "sweet somethings" in his ear doesn't have to be at the beginning but can happen anytime during lovemaking. And if you really want to get him aroused like never before, talk him into letting you retrain his hands. For some reason just thinking about being restrained gets me almost berserk with desire. Handcuffs are not just for Cops anymore.

Answer 3

Actually, I have noticed that most guys like having their ear lobe gently nibbled on. The non-privates part to kiss is that little soft area between the jaw and the ear. It usually drives them wild. Also, a lot of caressing all over. Sexy back massages are good. You rub his back, kissing and licking as you do it. If you're behind him, it gives you some control too.

Answer 4

Touches and caresses on his hands, arms, thighs, stomach, and a bit of soft touches or tickle his ears and neck. Lots of tiny kisses on his face, little licks on his chin, and a squeeze in his privates as a bonus - he will get the idea very quickly. Or if you are really horny, just grab him, kiss him hard, throw him on the bed/sofa and rip off his clothes. That's all I could think of right now. Need to be in a horny mood for more ideas!!

Answer 5

all guys like to be touched in different places. there`s no real rules as is the same wiv women. now thats where the fun comes in is finding those spots. be adventurous. if u touch him all over very very lightly u`ll soon find the area`s he likes. wen u have found those area`s then u can start teasing him to raise his blood pressure!

Answer 6

guys like to be touched in the obvious place, take control, lick every where slowly leaving the p**is till last (that will drive him crazy) massage neck shoulders rub the back nice and slow wear something nice when doing it but be confident

Answer 7

I know for my husband that just nibbling his ear or breathing on his neck drives him crazy. Sometimes just laying in a long embrace and looking at each other. Sometimes he just likes if I'm the initiater. It really doesn't take a lot of aggressiveness. That always comes later. Playfullness is great and surprising him.

Answer 8

Sucking on his ear is good.
Its a big turn on.
But its not really what you do but how you do it.
Dont go too slow to make him fall asleep but not too fast that he's grabbing you to take control.
Start by kissing him then moving to his ear, then kiss his neck a just like women like thier nipples sucked, men like it too although most of them don't know it because they haven't had it done to them.

Alternate in these areas and he'll be putty in your hands

Answer 9

now then thats just it we like foreplay big style but most men just want to get straight to the action boring as it is.

Answer 10

U can kiss him all over, his lips , chest, talk , tell how u feel being together it depends, he may feel bored if u talk too much. go for oral Then tell him what u want , what position whatever