how can i start a conversation with a girl that i REALLY like?

Question

There is this girl i really really like, and my whole school knows it, she even knows it! Everytime people ask her if she likes me, she says, "I dont know, he needs to talk a bit more," but everytime im by her i don't know how to start up a conversation or what to say, im too afraid that it's gonna sound stupid and lame. What should i do? I LIKE HER TOO MUCH TO LET HER GO

Answer 1

You may start talking to her on the telephone.That would ease your nerves a bit.Talk to her about something she likes.There is nothing wrong in getting nervous, most of us do get nervous in such situations. I suppose she may also be as nervous as you are.Just be yourself.And you said it that she is too important for you to let her go. So get her before she changes her mind or before she falls for someone else.

Answer 2

First of all, stop telling yourself that you REALLY like her. You are going to psych yourself out. If you are too nervous around her, you will act stupid & lame. Chill out. She is just another person, no different than anybody else as far as you know (sounds like you don't know each other yet), so quit building her up in your mind to be a goddess oe something. When you talk to her, act as if she were some cool GUY that you were trying to meet. Act comfortable, and tell yourself that it doesn't matter if she likes you or not. Act a little indifferent, so that you don't come off as desperate.

Try going up to her and cracking a joke about her. It seems counter-intuitative, but try making fun of her a little, you know, tease her. Walk over to her and say something outrageous like, "man is that a big handbag! What do you have in there, a gun?" (just don't get her into trouble). Teasing her makes you seem self-confident AND fun at the same time. Self-confidence and humor are the two things that most women say that they are looking for in a man. BTW, do not make comments about her body, or how pretty she is, because that sounds creepy coming from a stranger. And make sure that you keep eye contact (if you get shy and start to look down at the floor (or her body) like most guys do, she will think that you are looking at her boobs and get offended).

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Answer 3

Find out what sort of music she likes and start there! If not, you could always try 'Do you ever read the questions on Yahoo?' It's normal to be tongue-tied when you like someone, but if you can't find anything to talk about, you're gonna find yourself at a bit of a loss once you get going!! Good luck hon. Just remember, you're not trying to do her a favour... she's lucky to have your interest!!

Answer 4

First of all you havent got her , secondly you need to shape up and get some balls yes i know its hard to do it but unless you can then she wil be lost . You want to be different man try this .

Waddup fool .......( pause ) you dont have to be shy i mean i saw you checking me out and its obvious your to scared to talk to me so i thougtht id come over and chat , oh im ( name here ) nice for you to meet me . Chat about different stuff not the typical crap .

I used to be like that too well i still am a bit and your just going to have to do it chat to as many girls as possible man get your confidence up and dont look down on your self , dont care what she thinks and if she rejects you just say oh well your loss . You should try it good luck geezer .

Answer 5

how about I'm too afraid if I speak to you its gonna sound stupid and lame. However, I just want to confirm that I like you too much to let you go!!! okay am trying to make you lose her.
You are not ready young man, focus on your books and try again next year when you have gathered some b**ls.

Answer 6

Just be yourself. Compliment her on how she looks. I think she may like you too, but there are women who like a man to be aggressive. Don't be too aggressive though. Start conversation about things going on the school or just ask her about her classes. Try to be her friend first.

Answer 7

if i was the girl, and i heard that you liked me already, i'd be interested, but i probably would've wished you'd tell me about it first instead of other people. you have to have confidence when you do talk to her do you have any mutual friends? maybe ask to hang out with a group first, so there's no expectations of chemistry by having a "date". from there, just have small talk... you'd be surprised at how one topic can lead to another. good luckkkk

Answer 8

Why dont you start by greeting her then ask how was her day lately or hows life in your side? maybe it might work just make sure your confident and brave okay? then if everything goes well then ask her more things then another until you notice your talking to her.

Answer 9

I had the comparable challenge with a guy in my class! in case you have a pal who's additionally acquaintances along with her, you need to all commence a verbal substitute! If that is not any longer achieveable, then in simple terms say, "whats up, what become the homework?" or you need to declare "whats up! Your in my (sparkling) class, do you like that class?" Then she might start to talk to you greater in case you commence with small talk! i'm hoping I helped! be at liberty to superb answer me! =] xx

Answer 10

Bring up something she's into or a class she has...ask a question about a teacher or school function coming up.