I didn't know if other women ever suffered the same thing? Is this normal?
2006-10-13 03:04:51 · 13 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Health ➔ Other - Health
suffer in silence like a decent mammal. Normal or not, the point's childbearing. Now THAT'LL be fun.
2006-10-13 03:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Tree of Jesse 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's not normal to hurt from normal intercourse, but if you get a bit carried away, it can be sore afterwords. Or possibly if he is abnormally large. If that's the case, go real slow and use lubricant, and it should be OK.
If it continues, or gets worse, and you can't think of anything special you two are doing that would explain it, then you need to do two things: (1) Have your partner look, with a flashlight if necessary, and see if he's caused any visible damage, and if so, he can put some Vitamin E cream on it and leave you alone for a few days to heal up. (2) If that's not enough, see a gynecologist.
The reason for step one is educational as well as physiological. I wouldn't go so far as to say "to guilt-trip him," but he should know what he is doing to you.
2006-10-13 10:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overall sex should not hurt or be painful, if you go days between having sex, sometimes you can be sore, but it shouldn't hurt, unless your having overly rough sex. Sex should be enjoyable for both you and your partner, also, you might want to consider different positions to see if this alleviates some of the discomfort. I know personally, there are some positions that my husband and I no longer use, because it feels painful, but just repositioning ourselves and the pain is gone.
I would make an appointment with your OB-Gyn and ask for a Pap just to be sure.
2006-10-13 10:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by nanners040477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex isn't meant to hurt. Does it hurt while you are making love--like does it feel like pins or something sticking you, or is it because your partner is large and is stretching you? If the session has be vigerous and gone on for sometime soreness that goes away in a short period of time is normal. if your partner is large and doesn't take enough time to get you arroused it can also hurt. A lubercant may help before you have sex.
2006-10-13 10:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by suzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not be painful at all. Maybe you are being too rough or your partner is, you might need a lubricant, if these don't help you need to go to a gynecologist because something really isn't right.
2006-10-13 10:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried lubrication? You can find KY Jelly at your local drug store or supermarket. And maybe you should try some positions where you're in control of how much of your man's member you can take in-- like you being on top.
2006-10-13 10:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is normal if you haven't had sex in a couple of days or there could be something wrong (cervical).
2006-10-13 10:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever seen a doctor about this ? there are plenty of reasons why this is happening to you. have you ever used lubrication? you should try that perhaps.
2006-10-13 10:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough foreplay for lubrication
also try slow romantic sex
2006-10-13 10:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
use some kind of lubrication gel, may help, but if not pop to your docs.
2006-10-13 10:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋