i have been seeing this guy for quite some time now, and i want to tell him how much i love him and care about him...but...i'm scared that it will push him away...because maybe he doesn't feel the same way, or maybe if i tell him, he will open up to me about his true feelings....HELP!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO.....
2006-10-13 02:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by girly3256 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that's the way you feel I say tell him. If he doesn't feel the same way tell him you don't want to rush him. Unless you have been together long enough and you feel like he should have stronger feelings by now. If not then ask yourself some questions. Is he into you? Or is he using you? Not saying he is maybe he just isn't ready. Tell him how you feel and that you don't want to scare him or push him away. Honesty and communication are most important in a relationship. If he runs then you are better off.
2006-10-13 03:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by Need Help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to evaluate your relationship. Consider the time limit that you have been together and also think of the conversations you guys have together. If he talks and his actions show that he is in love with you honey don't hesitate to tell your true feelings. Maybe he feels the same way but he is waiting for you to say it first. Something about men and their feelings. They feel like a real man if you say the "L" word first and they won't feel like a geek to their boys. Tell him and if you guys have been together for a while you have nothing to worry about it will only make it a better relationship for you.
2006-10-13 11:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm in the exact same position with my bf. We've been dating
for 1 1/2 years and want to tell him too but afraid of pusing him
away..Its been driving me crazy lately..
I'm thinking maybe you should approach the subject with him
slowly? Maybe say you like how things are going and ask him
if he does? That may help him open up alittle and it can give you
a feel for what he's thinking..It could get the conversation going..
Men don't like to open up with their feelings and it drives us
crazy! ...Good luck....! (if it works let me know...) :-)
2006-10-13 10:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by shyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront and honest tell him that you really want to tell him how you feel but that your afraid of his response and think that it might push him away. Reassure him that you like your relationship and don't want to rush him and let him know that you are completely ok if he doesn't feel the same.
2006-10-13 10:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, it will be really very nervous for us to go and propose to guys .but be sure dat he likes u a little bit and see to it dat he doesnot have any lover and just wait for sometime and during d valentines day u propose to him if he doesnt propose to u till then .
all d best
2006-10-13 10:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.Edward cullen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and don't worry about it...if you really love him and he really loves you then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-13 10:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by ram_this911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋