Hi! Maybe some good advice will help...We havent been together very long, about half a year, but we got very close very fast. His last relationship was several years ago, and it lasted 7 years...I went away to college (we met over the summer) and we started bickering over small things. (He's one of those people that get annoyed easily, I have some annoying habits, but nothing that I dont mind working on. But of course, he feels guilty when I do) He used to send floweres, etc., but when I asked why he seemed to be pulling away, he said he felt less comfortable bc of our problems. For the past several weeks, we have been having major arguments, but we both really do love each other, and dont really have the desire to break up...He does want to work on things, he actually called me and asked me back out to dinner again after a fight. Now, for the 1st weekend since ive been away, he wants to be alone.Im not quite sure what this means..Is this just a waster of time? and i ran out of space..
2006-10-13 02:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by musicgurl1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you both really love each other just take your time and see where it goes. if you notice that things hasn't changed in the next three months then I say move on
2006-10-13 02:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence , but that isnt a very good relationship. If u really love each other, u would see each other all the time. Thats a waste of time, i tell u. Go out on a date and have some fun!
2006-10-13 09:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by sparklediva121 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A waster of time. Go out and date and have fun......Their are million of single men out there; looking for a gal just like you. Have fun...... Don't worry about this one, he'll come back, they always do. Especially when they find out that you have been dating someone else.
2006-10-13 09:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need arguments your whole life?? Maybe you are better as friends. His on one minute/off the next is not good relationship material. It may be time to shake hands & move on.
2006-10-13 09:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out before you get in deeper. i'm stuck in a marriage like that, now we have more things to sort out before we can "up and leave" so...dont get more involved, call it a day and move away as friends rather than enemies!!
2006-10-13 09:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I have used the "I want to be alone" it means I'm losing interest in the relationship. I think he is sick of arguing, sick of the up and downs. If you want him you have to work on this.
2006-10-13 09:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by K J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋