2006-10-13 02:33:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
One of the funniest speeches I have seen was in the Australian movie 'The Castle'.
In the movie, the father said how many doubts he had as his daughter was marrying a foreigner and he expressed his doubts about the guy his daughter had chosen to marry.
The parents of the groom were horrified, but then he said how happy the guy had made his daughter and he welcomed him to the family with open arms.
It was hilarious, perhaps you could start off negatively and then turn it around, you will get some laughs that way.
2006-10-13 17:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't have a whole speech for you, but something light hearted to start your speech might be....
I don't know if I'm loosing a daughter or gaining a son......I'm so confussed here......I bet everyone will laugh if your laughing as you say it. It might help break the tension before you go into a more serious speech.
Also, If your nervous about talking to a crowd, just turn to your daughter and talk to her and her new husband. "A take care of each other kind of speech". Forget about the guests!
OH, if your daughter sees you smiling through out the reception, she will be sooooooo happy that her dad is happy.
Best Wishes!!!
2006-10-13 03:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by together420yrs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heartfelt always goes over better than witty.... especially for the father of the bride unless he is an experienced witty spokesman.
I will give you the same advice I gave my partner..... it is essential that father of the bride thanks the mother of the bride in his speech for giving him such a beautiful daughter and raising her so well........ this is regardless of whether you and her mother are still together.....
All past crap between parents is left at the back door of their own homes before attending their childs wedding....
And yes I am the 'new' woman in my mans life and I was soooooo proud of him and his speech at his recent daughters wedding where he thanked his now -ex- wife for having given him such a wonderful daughter and for all her efforts in raising the children....
There was not a dry eye in the room... his ex-wife and her family all cried and I was sobbing along with the best....
And EVERY girl deserves to have her mother and father dance together at her wedding..... no matter what the present relationship of the parties... after all it is only one dance... but the memories of her parents dancing together at her wedding will last forever..
2006-10-14 18:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best speech is one that is spoken from the heart. Let her know how special she is and how much she is loved and cherished by you. Let her know that you have always wanted the best for her and how proud you are of her. If you want to make it a little funny you might add in a few of the growing up moments. As seen through daddy's eyes. I am sure if what ever you say is spoken from the heart it will alot easier to remember and you will fumble less with your words. Good luck
2006-10-13 02:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by lothlorien30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-11-18 06:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always good to go the sentimental route. Maybe a cute story from when she was little to get a little laughter and then share what you took from that experience to make it something more than just silly. Don't forget to mention how proud you are of the woman she has become. I am getting married in a year and my father tells me that all the time. Those are the words that ring through my ears everyday. It makes me smile to know that he is so proud of me.
2006-10-13 02:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Gabby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly congratulations! (for your daughter)
I'm gonna have to agree with the others something from the heart, and if its mushy who cares after all it is a wedding!! If you're afraid of speaking in front of all those guests just imagine everyone naked!! Not that thats ever worked for me but anyway
Good luck!!
2006-10-13 02:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are standing there and looking at your daughter,the memories and love for those precious times will come flooding back and then you will have to keep from crying and talking too much.You are her father and believe me ,we daughters love our daddies forever.You will be fine and congratulations for being a true dad.I had one as well and that was a blessing.He didn't live with us,but i spent all my weekends and holidays with him and my siblings.You'll be fine.
2006-10-13 02:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyones ideas are great i agree speak from the heart
. for a bit of humour and embasassment i went to a wedding recently where early in the night the father of the bride handed out keys to 4 of his daughters male friends and 2 females then in his speech spoke about how when she was younger and at home she used to sneak boys in to her room at night and how relieved he was that she had finally found the man of her dreams and he did not have to put up with this anymore. he then asked for anyone who might have a key to his house to come up and return them to him. as the 4 males got up everyone laughed then the 2 girls got up and it was hilarious.
2006-10-13 23:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by gangstachick76 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don not try to put too much pressure on yourself and you daugghter and to-be-son-in-law. Speak it from the heart. Don't let the nerves get you, show him and her your affection and tell him what to do in a gentle, light-hearted manner that will make both you and him happy.
2006-10-13 15:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by ArmedGangstaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋