Not all men are up for fathering on demand so we should be given a trial period with a kind of get out clause where we could possibly cut all ties after 2 weeks.
2006-10-13 02:12:56 · 32 answers · asked by trevorchipfat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What??? Are you nuts??
2006-10-13 02:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sunspot Baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MIND?
You must be in the mood to get flamed because this is the most absure question I have ever heard.
You think the mother should carry all the responsibility for a child they both made just in case he decides he doesn't feel like participating after the fact?
But hey, men tend to just walk away from their kids and not pay support anyway, so why bother with a waiver.
2006-10-13 02:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by baxterstuds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people should be 'accountable' for whatever they do. If a man thinks he might not be 'up to' the task of fathering, it's his responsiblity to make sure he doesn't become a biologica 'donor' to a new life. If you want a 2 week trial period to accept a newborn - perhaps it would be a good idea to first have a 2 week 'cool down' period before you have sex.
2006-10-13 02:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by needtoknow 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha ha, you really know how to get them going, don't you? Can't believe people are taking this so seriously! Anyway 2 weeks is far too long, make it a couple of sleepless nights then decide. I loved it when my kids were new born, they're so perfect and delicate, you just can't help but love them and whisper stupid promises to them and protect them. By the way, not all woman are up to mothering on demand, ever heard of postnatal depression? Maybe you should both sign contracts, it may be you left holding the baby.
2006-10-13 02:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that BEFORE you helped make a baby. You're a Father whether you want to be or not...the choice was made the night you had unprotected sex with her. Now the question is "can you be a Dad?" A father is by birth....a Dad is someone special in a kids life. Make the right decision now!
2006-10-13 04:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so funny LOL
can the woman have that choice as well
how about when the child reaches the horrible expensive stage A TEENAGER the mother hands them over to the father to look after
2006-10-13 02:59:09 · answer #6 · answered by cazmo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you ? are you mentally ill ? Cause by asking this you must be . Are you on medication that makes you feel like this is a good question to ask? With someone like you in the world maybe you should be a poster child for birth control !!!! Hell no we have enough sorry men in the world as it is . Dont give dead beats dads more ammunition for god's sake. !!!!!
2006-10-13 02:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is that? I totally disagree.. in two weeks, well if a man is not up for fathering, then he need to always use birth control..If he put the seed there, I think it is his responsibility to be a father..Tell him get a book on how to be a father..There are all these books for dummies...if i am not mistaken I think there is one entitled "Parenting for Dummies....Good luck
2006-10-13 02:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding, right? Its like saying the child you conceived TOGETHER I MIGHT ADD should not be fed or cared for while you selfishly decide whether to do so.
Idotic and immature...how old are you? Best answer...wear a condom!
2006-10-13 02:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can leave now if you wish... child support is going to kick you in the rear though... good luck with that!! With that mentality the baby is WAY better off with out you!!!
2006-10-13 02:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by chrystal_lynn2002 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! What sort of a sicko are you? Quite frankly, I think you should be banned from here because you're obviously a twisted woman/child-hater!
2006-10-14 04:44:31 · answer #11 · answered by chemical_sister_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋