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why do women try to (train) us men? we don't do it to you.

2006-10-13 02:02:16 · 23 answers · asked by jester9236 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Women have motherly instincts.& it's hard when we see a man that don't do right & that mommy comes out in us. But I will say that the training thing does work both ways. Men just handle their's in a different way than women.

2006-10-13 02:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1 0

That is what women do. They learn this from mother when they are little girls. They do everything to mold us into what they want us to be and do for them the moment we get with them. From the time they are little girls, they study us guys. They learn what makes us tick and what makes us happy.

Guy on the other hand are way behind the curve on learning about girls. As biys we spend out time playing sports and the Xbox. Only time we think about the opposite sex is worrying about catching the cooties or as teenagers want to see one naked. LOL

A big part of the training process by women is using their emotions and sensitivity. They know we men are suckers for a woman who flashes her eyes at us or cry. Another part of the training process is that when you are in a relationship with a woman, you have to make compromises. You have to give things up as she will do the same. Change also comes with age.

Let a woman train us as long as she isn't compromising your dignity and self-respect as a man. As long as she does that, then it is all good.

2006-10-13 02:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0 0

Oh..geez! Train a man? Are you kidding? Training is for dogs! Women teach, they are natural born teachers and nutrures. It's all about communication. If it's a one way street, an a gal is trying to tell you how it is..there is a problem! I personally love it when a man shows me how to do something, wether working on a car, or telling me what he thinks i look sexy in. I don't feel like im being trained.

2006-10-13 02:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by tonka 2 · 0 0

Women don't train men. Certain girls train men. That's when you know she doesn't love you, if she's making attempts to alter your personality or appearence. Men don't train women, but certain boys do. It goes both ways, don't be too bitter. Just know, there are women who won't try to change you, they'll accept your flaws and learn to love them.

2006-10-13 02:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0 0

ok for one thing some of us women don't "train" u guys u guys put that on urself....a nice man gets a nice women a mean and nasty man gets a bitchy women be polite and we be polite to u...u "men" just need to learn to be nice...a nice man is who gets all the attention if we were trying to "train" u man then u would be in a hell of a lot of trouble we just want a mans respect...not to be mean but we do respect you men if u respect us women enough!

2006-10-13 02:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

simple answer is because there women but in truth we men are just as bad as them

2006-10-13 04:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes you do!

Men don't say "Honey,it's your job to pick up my skid marked underwear off the kitchen floor." They just leave them sit and wait for her to pick them up.
They don't say "I demand a hot meal when I get home." They just sit and wait for her to get up and cook a 4 course meal while talking about everything that sounds good to eat.
Men refuse to remember to take out the trash.Make Dr. appointments.Pay the bills.Fix what's broken ETC.
Men just sit and wait for all to magically be done for them.
Then they have the nerve to complain about how we dress.The time we take in the bathroom.The make-up we put on.The way our hairs fixed.No matter that we've knocked ourselves out to look nice for our men.They don't want anyone else to look at us too so we're to spend less money and less time on ourselves and more on our men.
We're not to have a brain.We're not supposed to speak to YOUR friends.We're not supposed to expect to be taken out.We're just supposed to sit and wait and wait and wait while you guys sit in a bar talking sh@t to each other having a good time.And if we complain about it you guys start looking for other females using the excuse that we're frumpy.We controlling.We're too busy or tired to fix ourselves up for you.The house is'nt clean enough.Or we're lazy.When all we've done is kill ourselves to please you fools.
Your mothers potty trained you but left the actual housebreaking to the future spouse.Once you get away from your mothers you forget that you have to be considerate and respectful of the woman in your life.She's not your momma so you take her for granted.

2006-10-13 02:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

we dont try to "train" you, and in my experience, most of the men I've been with, they try to control me

2006-10-13 02:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes you do. You do it unnoticeable though. We voice what we want. You guys just keep quiet and don't say much, so in turn we rack our brains trying to figure out how to make you happy! Make us happy by talking for once!!!!

2006-10-13 02:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0 0

Simple. Women love being in control... its in our nature just like its in guys nature to screw anything that walks.

2006-10-13 02:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by kornbabe1988 2 · 0 0

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