My bf and i are in love with each other, we really are. We do have sex sometimes but it also happens that whe i want it he doesn't, or as he says he does but he is too tired. the worst thing is that he wouldn't even let me try to make him want it... what shall i do?
2006-10-13 01:42:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you will leave his *** if he doesn't **** you silly right now dammit!
2006-10-13 01:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by tvman30044 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to delve further into this problem. How often are you guys making love? Is it a time of the day thing? It may be that you try "waking up early" to do it. Do you guys live together? How long have you been dating? If you are still young (ie living with your parents or something of the such) wait until you are both more mature to worry about this. If you are both mature enough to handle a relationship, and are committed to each other, maybe there is something to worry about. It is possible he is cheating on you. It is also possible he has a health problem and is embarassed. Try to shake things up, try different times, places, toys, etc. If it still does not work, sit him down and talk to him about it. I do not know of many healthy, sexually active men who would be regularly turning down sex with their significant other without another deeper seeded problem... keep an eye open to see if you can figure it out.
2006-10-13 01:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Craig B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love should be fun. Make it different and interesting, like suggesting doing it in a different place, role playing, introduce new toys into the relationship. Variety is the spice of life, and men love it too. Starting out with just touching and feeling each other, heavy petting, could lead to something else! Good luck and enjoy it! Men will stray for a reason, and usually not having hot sex with their partner is the main reason.
2006-10-13 01:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people just aren't' as sexual as others...If you are a very sexual person and your man isn't then maybe you should invest in some toys or find someone who is as sexual as you...But if you truly love him you will find a way to stick it out. And the best way for that is to find a way to fulfill you needs by yourself.
2006-10-13 02:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up i understand what you attempt to declare. look, love can not be pressurized on every person, it rather is rapidly from coronary heart. If u experience so then it style of feels that the means is death out. Please do one element. at the beginning be useful despite in case you like him rather and u can spend your existence with him. Secondly, call him up manage a gathering and tell him what situation u r dealing with. Please do no longer b impolite with him in basic terms loving. tell him that its no that u do no longer love him yet each little thing in extreme finally ends up in wreck up and u do no longer p.c. to accomplish that. If he loves you rather then he will actually understand and ur situation would be solved. all of the excellent pal!
2016-12-26 18:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T! Making love is for marriage. That's it. Sounds boring yes and you might think he'll leave you but if he truly loves you he wont. Sex is for marriage nothing more.
2006-10-13 01:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your relationship is more mental than physical or hes hiding something. theres no freaking way u would youd b asking me more than once. as much as u want 2 get broke off id break u off.
2006-10-13 01:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump him and get a new model if he not fulfilling your needs now he never will do lady no matter how much you love him
2006-10-13 04:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to pick a good time
and good mood
2006-10-13 01:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by mdsubahi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to do (Usher) take it nice and slow
2006-10-13 01:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by kevin l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
learn body language.
2006-10-13 01:45:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋