My boyfren cheated on me and its been two years since.I reject a few guys who wants to get to noe me coz i m afraid of being cheated again..
2006-10-13 01:31:37 · 15 answers · asked by happyness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it slow. Tell the guys who want to go out with you the truth. Tell them simple and truly that you don't want to right now because you're still not over your last boyfriend cheating on you. Or, you can always take a leap of faith and fall. You don't know that he will cheat on you this time, but you don't know he won't either. That's why it's taking a leap of faith. You're jumping into something that you have no idea what will be the ending result. Do you really want to hurt forever and never fall in love or do you want to chance it and look for the love of your life? The choice is up to you. Make the right decision for yourself. You need to find a way to kill that fear and demolish its very being. Falling in love is something everyone does at one point or another. Just stop looking so hard, you'll find him. Trust me, it's hard, but it works better for you to stop looking. Love will find you, don't go looking for it. Please though, make the internet the last place you come to for help. Talk to your dad, your mom, family, friends or school counselor. Just not the internet. Too many people are inmature.
2006-10-13 01:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very hard so I doubt you'll hear any quick fixes. I have a few suggestions:
1. Forgive the boyfriend and move on. That's probaby the most important thing.
2. Look at what you expect from a relationship and see what you can give. The more you focus on what you have to give the less power some of this stuff has over you.
2006-10-13 01:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by kellermanintx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey go ahead let someone love you i understand when you say you are scared he will cheat on you but to get to know someone new you have to give that person a chance all men don,t cheat just the ones who think they can get away with it not realizing what you do affect the people in your life some don,t even care this percentage look over them and forgiive them and move up and move on good luck to you
2006-10-13 01:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to attract a good one,
YOU need to do some personal
development.
Don't worry so much about guys,
they aren't going anywhere.
And I have to say, honestly,
start by working on your grammar.
people will take you more seriously.
2006-10-13 01:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..maybe your not yet ready for a new relationship..take your time but remember that in everything that happen to us, there is a lesson we can learn so maybe you need to just be careful next time but dont stop yourself in falling in love.. coz you'll never know when the right one comes..:)
2006-10-13 01:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by ettienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing like a women scorn. But when the time is right you will know it and will put all the hurt aside . Dont let on e ahole ruin your view on all men. were not all like that.
2006-10-13 01:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by BigWally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is quote written on the rocks at Port Macquarie breakwall
Learn to love like you have never been hurt
thats the best advice i have ever seen --- so dont be afraid --- learn to love again
2006-10-13 01:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only got cheated once, i know its bad but if u stay like this do you think you will ever find one? because i don't think so. so for once again start a new life in dating. just accept people who wants to know you and start getting to know them too.so that one day you will find your partner. plus don't worry he is out there somewhere and will definitely come to you.
2006-10-13 01:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by tharindra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing worst than falling in love and getting you heart broken. never be afraid to fall in love cause you can always find someone better than the one who heart you. you'll never find ''the one'' if youre afraid to falll in love. getting you heart broken is just away for you to make yourself stronger and better. but make sure you fall in love with the ight one and not just anyone
2006-10-13 01:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not ready, so don't force it. Love comes, and you'll feel the warmth without hesitation or thinking. So wait for that moment.
2006-10-13 01:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋