i really like this guy but the thing is he's not that handsome and i'm afraid people might try to insult him..people say that i really look good that's why we dont belong,but i really like him help?
2006-10-13 01:23:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why?? Why do you care about what anyone has to say. If people insults him he should be able to say "thats why my girls a hotie and yours aint". He should be fine, as for you, you need to go out there and tell him that you like him and stop worrying about what people have to say. At the end of the day ur the one thats gonna be with him not any one else. People will talk regardless so Be happy and go tell him.
2006-10-13 01:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were is your confidence and respect????? If you have to ask us a question like that then please by all means do not go out with this guy because you don't even feel comfortable and confident enough to be with him. Your more worried about what other people think or say. Who cares about what these people think, it's what you think that counts the most. It also doesn't matter that you look good and he doesn't. There is no rule that says only good looking people need to be with good looking people, and the not so good looking people stick to the not so good looking ones. You date and be with a person that is good for you, and that respects you, and loves you for you.
2006-10-13 08:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy then do not mind about what other people have to say. You shouldn't care about what he and you look like, I mean if you two understand each other, just go out with him (I did it and eventhough we broke it was a great experience for both of us) at the end of the day people saw that we were into each other and they stopped having "a say" on what we did.
2006-10-13 08:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not about what's outside...only shallow people consider only the outside looks package. It's the caring and the heart that's inside that make the person who they are. You could be dating a movie star, and have them treat you like crap, and all your friends would see is the movie star. YOU are the person that see's what's inside this guy. If he makes you happy and feel good, then YOU are the one that has to deal with it all, and i say go for what makes you happy. If your friends and family cant see how happy you are, then they need the reality check, not you.
2006-10-13 08:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by foxxy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you are afraid - are you afraid for him or are you afraid at how you may or may not react to people insulting him, and indirectly you too (?). If you really like him then it shouldn't matter and it would matter even less if you discussed it with him (sensitively of course) and plan together how you both might best deal with it, 'if' and perhaps when it does happen.
Sincerely
Kaizen
2006-10-13 08:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the guy, they woukd honestly not care what other people think...your Happiness depends on what you like, what everyone else likes is their prob. I would say give it a go, if it doesnt work out, hey, atleast you know it wasnt meant to be.
2006-10-13 08:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Raina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like the guy dont care what people say, becuase you're the one going out with him NOT the people....My advice go for it!
2006-10-13 08:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by AG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about what other people think and go for it if you like this guy he may be THE ONE,who gives a rip if he isn't Brad Pitt,if he treats you right and you like him that is all that counts,what other people think doesn't matter,it is what makes YOU happy
2006-10-13 08:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by onyxpryzm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy, imagine ur were in his shoes.. how would u feel if someone didn't want to go out with you just because u r not good looking.... I though if u like someone enough to care about them then the looks shouldn't be a big "problem".
and please try to leave your own life.....regardless what others say!!
2006-10-13 08:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by loves_nature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not worried about, then you shouldn't be. Are sure your not the one who might get the negative attention for not dating up to your invisioned potential? Don't use him as the excuse.
2006-10-13 08:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jack B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋