I have a really cute coworker that is a nice guy. I have talked to him quite a few times but he works on the other side of the office and we have 300 people. We will always look at each other. One day I walked by him and he winked at me. Also, I've been noticing over the last week or so, he's giving me these really sexy smiles. He was sitting in the lounge during lunch time earlier this week and was facing away from me on his cell phone. He noticed I walked into the room, I saw him turn around, give me this sexy look and smile at me. I think I wanna ask him to hang out, but I have no idea how to do it. Do you think he may be interested?
2006-10-13 01:04:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also to let you guys know- my office is being closed down in less than 2 months- so we wont work together much longer. So, I kinda wanted to hang out so that we are still in touch once we leave work.
2006-10-13 01:11:08 · update #1
First, you can walk up to him and say hi, y'know minor and casual chit chat but don't ask him out. When you've kept the conversation going, then ask him for his number. When the office is finally closed then you can call him and set up a date. His reaction during the first conversation will show whether he's interested or not.
And before you do anything, find out if he's hooked up or married. And be careful, coworker relationships are usually about the sex and not like a normal serious kind of relationship. And you have to keep conversations discreet as you don't want any rumour to go around.
2006-10-13 01:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends to stop somewhere after work, maybe for a drink, and then walk by this special guy and mention you guys are all going to get a drink and mention you love for him to join you. If he says no, it's no big deal. If he gets there you have your chance to get to know him better.
2006-10-13 01:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Robbie trd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is interested, obviously. RED FLAG!!! You work eith him, if things go sour you have to face him at work everyday. If you have a spat you are going to bring it to work with you. No matter how many times you say you won't it'll happen. So be ready to face that before jumping into anything.
2006-10-13 01:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by rswdew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be interested in you but don't rush it. Allow it to happen naturally. He may be less attracted to you if you make the first move. Enjoy the flirtation!
2006-10-13 01:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure he is not married or engaged. Then, go for it -- the worse that can happen is he says "no". If he says yes, make sure you set up ground rules since you work together, i.e., no physical contact at work. You're single, have fun!
2006-10-13 01:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rebel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be interested but let it go! Co-workers who connect are asking for trouble. If you like your job, find someone else who's interested.
2006-10-13 01:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah, but office romances can have it's downside. I would hook up but keep your business quiet, there's nothing worst than everyone knowing your business in such a close area.
2006-10-13 01:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this: "Hi, would you like to go out for coffee sometime." It is kinda simple.
2006-10-13 01:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definitely interested in you.. but i think he's just flirting..
2006-10-13 01:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by Margaret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he surely is
2006-10-13 01:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋