How is it possible for a boyfriend who lives with his girlfriend just one day decide he's not in love anymore and move out in a day? Of course the topic of marriage was brought up and he ran. I'm 30 and he's 28. Any insight?
2006-10-13 00:57:58 · 8 answers · asked by apriljm76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not immature...we were together 2 years before we moved in and he told me he definitely wanted to get married. I believed him. He lived here for about 6 months.
2006-10-13 01:10:42 · update #1
You answered your question. He lived with you for one day and during that day you brought up marriage.
2006-10-13 01:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wasn't ready for the marriage thing you probably sprung it on him to quickly. you have to let men come at that on there own time he moved in you moved in for the kill. It just takes time and because your almost 30 you may think that you have no more time or thought you'd be married by now don't rush it. call him back tell him your sorry and that you'll take it slow or at his pace. He may want to be with you but he needs some time. He could be afraid of commitment.
2006-10-13 08:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by emma's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on, you are matured. Look for a serious guy and this time do not live with him yet until you are preparing for the wedding ceremony.
2006-10-13 08:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mermaid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WASN'T READY WHEN HE MOVED IN, AND IF YOU SIT BACK AND THINK ABOUT THE DAYS PRIOR TO THE MOVE, I'LL BET CHA' THERE WERE SOME SIGNS, SOMETHING HE DID OR SAID AND YOU CHOOSE TO OVER LOOK THEM. NOW, IF YOU ARE REALLY 30 YO. GROW UP!!!!! YOU CAN'T BE THAT INNOCENT, THAT YOU CAN'T FIGURE THIS OUT FOR YOURSELF!! hOWEVER IF YOU ARE...........GET SOME THERAPY YUR WAY TO IMMUTURE FOR YOUR AGE!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 08:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an ***!
um...I don't think that is possible.
he's probably scared to death of marriage.
It's probably better that you brought up marraige
now than later when you've lived with him for a few years.
He's not worth it.
2006-10-13 08:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by grace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not yet ready to make serious commmitments, most guys r like that... especially the young ones. well hard as it may seem, move on n find urself a mature guy.
2006-10-13 08:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. Maybe the marriage thing scared him off. Good luck, hon.
2006-10-13 08:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not yet ready to be committed..afraid to get married...
are you sure he loves you?
2006-10-13 08:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by ettienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋