family abuse?

Question

My dad abuses my lil step sister and my step mom does nothing about it. I know she probably doesnt even recognise it at abuse but i should know because when i was little my dad used to hit me all the time. It has gone on for so long that my step sister is scared of him when i come over she is always by my side never leaving. plz help!! i have no idea what 2 do!!!

Answer 1

Report it. As soon as possible. Social agencies, local police, specialized ovt dept may be your answer

Answer 2

Tough question. Not sure about your ages here, but can she or you speak to a school counsilor? Your parish priest? Grandparents? They may not solve the problem, but may know your dad well enough to give you sound advice on solving the problem...and getting the problem out in the open MAY make him think twice about hitting your sister again. If you think you need to take it this far, if he is leaving bruises and marks on her when he hits her, take pictures of the marks, then go to the police. Good luck and you are in my prayers.

Answer 3

You poor thing, what a problem to keep to yourself. Listen you said yourself, you know it happened to you, this little girl is going to end up very damaged if you don't seek help. Have you not got a female member of the family you could confide in?Maybe you could phone Childline or someone like this for advise, I am sure it is all confidential and I don't think you even have to give your name. You cannot carry this huge burden yourself, or it will damage you even more.My heart goes out to you and I hope you can sort this out.

Answer 4

i've got considered women people come right into a company for abuse and that they deliver them precise back to their abuser. If our wellness care equipment or criminal equipment turn a blind eye I do in basic terms not comprehend what to think of.

Answer 5

Either you should report it, or if you don't want to get directly involved you must tell her to come forward and tell someone out of the family, like a teacher or even the police, you copuld encourage her by going with her, but please you must put a stop to it, don't let it go on, she is suffering, talk to your stepmum, she should not allow him to hit her, would your father listen to you now that you are older. Please tell someone before she gets hurt and he ends up in prison, this could harm her for life, she is already trying to call out for help by sticking so close to you, she is looking out to you for support, don't ignore her.

Answer 6

tell someone as soon as possible. and also read the books:
A Child Called It & The Lost Boy

Answer 7

Talk to the childline the number is 0800 1111 they will give you some usefull help and advice and its free and confidential or talk to a teacher or friend. goodluck

Answer 8

You should try to talk to your stepmom about it....if she dont listen than you should go talk to someone in a higher position about it......i know you love him but you need to do all you can to help your lil sis...i would do all this if it was my lil sis

Answer 9

TELL..TELL.TELL. YOU SHOULD NEVER BE AFRAID OF DOING THE RIGHT THING. THIS LITTLLE GIRL NEEDS YOUR HELP!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR MOM ISN'T GOING TO DO ANYTHING, SHE LET YOU SUFFER, SO WHY WOULD SHE HELP THIS LITTLE GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!! HONEY, YOU ARE HER ONLY HOPE AND I KNOW IT'S HARD, BUT YOU CAN DO IT!!!! IF SHE IS IN SCHOOL GO TO ONE OF HER TEACHERS OR GUIDENCE COUNCELOR. IF NOT......GO TO THE POLICE. REASSURE THIS LITTLE GIRL THAT YOU WILL HELP HER. AND TELL HER SHE TO MUST TELL IF SOMEONE ASKS HER SHE HAS TO BE HONEST AND TELL. TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND PICK UP YOUR PHONE AND CALL SOMEONE WHO CAN HELP YOU, AND ESPECIALLY HER. YOU CAN DO THIS, YOU MUST DO THIS YOUR HER ONLY HOPE!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Go to a trusted adult at school or where ever and tell them. They will help you contact child services. Don't wait.