my in laws that is my mother in law my sisters in law n my brothers in law are driving me nuts. they are very dirty like i bought a new fridge they are messing the whole thing they mess the kitchen they eat n leave the plates on the table my sister inlaw keeps sleeping the whole day is not interested in house chores she thinks herself to be the queen.my mother in law doesnot say anything to her m simply fedup of all this my husband says to open your mouth n let them know but i cant do that coz then all will abuse me even if my husband talks to them they will do the same we cant even get a seperate house for ourselves. what do i do now?
2006-10-12 22:43:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If they live in your home, throw them to the curb. If you live in their home, leave. It really is all that simple. Too many people seem to be living under one roof for anybody to stay sane.
2006-10-12 22:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by mama mia! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I would question why you can not get your own place. If this is your place I'd say family meeting time (wake them all up) and tell them times they are a changing. If they can not clean up after themselves each will have to pitch an an additional 50 bucks a week for a maid (make them pay high rent if they aren't paying or paying just a little) Tell them they have 60 days to find a new place to live. Now if it isn't your house and it's theres
You got a bigger problem.. You need to get your own place and I'd put my foot up hubbys butt until that happens
2006-10-13 05:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should do a bit of messing about too. Dont do most of the chores. Just treat ur husband well. If they leave plates on the table, dont wash it. Play loud music for the benefit of the sleeping sis in law.
2006-10-13 05:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple try convincing them. Dont tell them you are creating a problem but try telling them that please help me a bit.
If they dont listen then try the other way, find some means to make them work. Say something insulting in front of your husband or mother in law may they will understand.
There's no harm in trying.
2006-10-13 05:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Harshal J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read my lips, 'KICK THEM OUT", Tell them when they can get their act together, call you. If you let them abuse them, then that is your fault. They are not your relatives, they are just piggy people taking advantage of them. If you want to help them become human, you must let them know how you feel, it is your house, and your rules. If they cannot follow the rules, out they go. Get the video "Mad House", and you will laugh yourself silly.
2006-10-13 05:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop exploitaion by In - Laws immediately. More you allow, more they will do to you, including your husband. They will drive you mad. It is better you act in a manner to appear good but drive them mad so that they leave you in peace. God help you my child.
2006-10-13 05:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by mann54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can always say the right things without hurtign anyone including ur reputation.If they are so head strong u feel no pointin talking then dont talk....dont use ur husband as a shield or a sword....face it ur self its ur problem afetr all....if u cant gather courage to talk them learn to suffer in silence.....talk to them without accusing them...i am sure they will learn....
2006-10-13 05:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by abhijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a simple problem of ur in-laws having no hygiene and all clumsy. Mine are all greedy and dont want to give my inheritance. I am a widow.
2006-10-13 05:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in laws like to eat heads
2006-10-13 05:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop cleaning up their mess. Let them do it. they will abuse you as long as you let them do it. go read or go for a walk dont let them keep getting in your head.
2006-10-13 05:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋