-tration. Sorry if this is a bit personal. I always try to make my g/f orgasm through both (at least) but can be a struggle sometimes through penetration. I'm just wondering if this bothers women.
Please don't tell me to ask her, I will ask her tonight I promise but am at work now and would like some varied opinions while i'm here.
2006-10-12 21:46:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your g/f is a very lucky lady! Honestly in my opinion, if my b/f made me orgasm with four play, i would defiantly not complain about not orgasiming during penetration!!! It would be nice but I'm sure she won't be cross.
Advice: don't let her get used to it. Having two orgasms in one session should come seldomly. Cause one day when you don't do it she could get angry. That's just from a women's point of view. You must be quite talented if you can satisfy her in Four play and Penetration! Enjoy :-)
2006-10-12 22:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me personally the best orgasm is during foreplay!
When my b/f makes me orgasm He doesnt have to worry about the penetration - coz throughout the pentration i will still be enjoying my orgasm i had during foreplay -
When a female has an orgasm during foreplay it lasts so much longer then during penetration.
Trust me sweety it totally doesnt bother us woman at all - even the smalles sensation of an orgasm to woman is totally and completely amazing (you obviously know that women takes so much longer to reach their peek)
So the smallest of smallest hint of an orgasm is amazing.
Your girl should be greatfull that you are still able to make her orgasm. Do you know that some woman goes through life without ever (and i MEAN EVA) experience orgams
Lots of my friends (female that is) never had orgasms.
And it aint personal
2006-10-13 05:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a problem believe it or not some women a lot of women don't have orgasm with penetration, it's the foreplay that get's them.. It depends on the female and what arouses or stimultates her sexually...an Orgasm is and orgasm, most women are glad to get one anyway they can !!!!
2006-10-13 04:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you can make her orgasm once, that is fantastic and twice is a bonus but sex can be fun without orgasm and the thought that you are being turned on may help her to get aroused again, are you vocal during sex?? Can she hear that you are happy?? Good Luck xx
2006-10-13 05:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Most women don't orgasm with penetration anyway. As long as she is happy, and has been satisfied at least once, then don't worry. But i think its great you care enough to worry about it.
2006-10-13 05:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Allie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I would be glad I had come through foreplay and find it really hard to come through penetration anyway. She is lucky to have such a considerate partner!
2006-10-13 07:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not only 5% of women orgasm through penetration, so the fact you're having trouble is no reflection on your skills, just her genetics!
2006-10-13 04:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by IshotJR 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should experiment with different positions to hit different spot. Also, you can still stimulate her clit while penetrating in most positions. Practice, practice, practice.
As long as you make sure she gets some release, it's a good start.
Is the problem that you don't last long enough?
2006-10-13 04:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesnt bother me. During penetration, the part i enjoy most is just being held by my partner (I have acctually never orgasmed during sex)
2006-10-13 04:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think its a big deal. Dont stuggle as much, just enjoy each others company. To me, its not all about the big O as much as it is the closeness, the contact, the sharing and the feeling of just being together. Good luck.
2006-10-13 04:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋