OK...two nights ago my bf and me got into a big fight because some guy texted me and asked y a nice girl like me is dating a guy like my bf....I ignored it but my bf got mad and stormed out of my house...Then last night he came over again, but this time I could immediately tell he was drunk but i didnt say anything...Then he started accusing me of cheating etc etc...So then we got into a big fight again and i was crying then i stopped then he started crying..I felt so bad so i comforted him and he carried on crying saying things like 'I'm sorry for making ur life so difficult' 'i'm sorry im such a screw-up' 'i love u' etc etc...I felt soo bad but eventually I got my father to drive him home. Today i feel soo terrible and depressed about this whole thing. I'll only be able to see him 2moro agin but now I'm stuck the whole day with this guilt what do I do?? My friends are always telling me to break up with him but I love him soo much and i know he feels the same!! What do I do???
2006-10-12 21:42:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its good for u if u love him and i dont see guyz crying over there gf guess he loves u a lot to
and he said sorry sounds like a nice guy to me a keeper
just a bit insecure abt u thats all
all the guys a like that abt the woman they love nothing diffrent
my advice dont let other interfare in ur relationship
between u too there shouldn't be a third party got it
lovers always fight nothing to worry abt
that teaches u how much u really love each other
dont feel guilty just tell that "a s s h o l e" who texted u to " F u c k" him self
never let anyone tell u abt wht u should do in a realtionship
tell u the truth u must have said somthing abt ur bf to that guy
other wise he wouldn't have dare text u something like that
so stop discussing ur private life with starngers or atleast with ppl u dont trust
cheers
2006-10-12 21:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what your friends are gonna do with your love life. a love relationship counts on the trust and happiness you both find with each other. that day whatever happened had happened, in a relationship these small things happen quiet often, but that doesn't mean that you should give up or break up. listen lady, looks always comes second. you said you love him and so does he. so go ahead meet him and give him a big hug, u see things will be just normal. always keep your mind free of these nuisance values that are put forward by useless friends.
2006-10-13 04:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by u_sing_2_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure. You should not be sharing your text messages though. The other guy was jealous and I'm surprised your boyfriend didn't see it. You should probably not have much more to do with him until he apologizes for being drunk. However, do NOT ask for the apology in front of anyone else because then losers will harass him about it.
2006-10-13 05:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey common, fights r part of each relationship, meet ur bf and tell him that u realy love him, try working on ur relationship, tell him and make more efforts so that he can trust u, no relationship can work out unless u nourish it properly, give him more , and try not to fight on trust issue, think this is a start of new phase in ur relationship in whch trust issue is not gonaa crop up again, all the best
2006-10-13 04:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like others dont approve of him, and why would that be? and what is it that you feel guilty of? doesent sound as if you did anything, so why are you feeling guilty? would you want to persue this other contact? if your having thoughts of meeting up with this guy, then your not as in love as you think you are, Im curious to know whats wrong wit yer bf, if nobody likes him therres a reason,
2006-10-13 04:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Phaque tu" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's not a loser, you should stay with him and comfort him. But if all your friends do not like him, maybe you should consider what type of person he is before you make your decision. Your friends may see a side of him that you do not see. Good luck!
2006-10-13 04:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madi S, you should know at this point somebody is trying to take off your relationship, that person must be among your friends. Don't let it happen, your bf must have something attractive. Take care!!!
2006-10-13 04:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
your bf over-reacted big time!
you should sit him down and remind him you are a big girl now, and you are perfectly capable of brushing off other guys who make approaches.
really, all he has done is make a big drama out of something you would have ignored....tell him all he has achieved is wasted time and upset both of you.
2006-10-13 04:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a big believer in talking things out. Have a sit down with him and talk it out. I do worry that he is acting like a child....he needs to grow up and talk this out with you. Good Luck!
2006-10-13 04:49:58 · answer #9 · answered by JookieBoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is giving you a guilt trip. Trying to Make you feel sorry for him.
2006-10-13 04:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋