I AM NOT CONTAGIOUS SO THERE IS NO DANGER TO HER BUT IT JUST SEEMS LIKE SHE HAS LOST ALL INTEREST IN ME. WE DON'T EVEN SHARE ANY IN SEX ANYMORE LET ALONE ANYTHING ELSE. IF I'M GOING TO DIE IN 6 MONTHS SHOULDN'T THIS BE THE BEST TIMES OF MY LIFE?? SHE DOESN'T EVEN TELL SHE LOVES ME ANYMORE. IS THERE ANY SUGGESTIONS THAT I COULD DO TO MAKE HER LOVE ME AGAIN?? ANY SUGGESTIONS WOULD HELP AT THIS TIME. IF THIS GOING TO BE HOW IT IS FROM HERE ON OUT I WOULD RATHER DIE NOW.
2006-10-12 21:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
H i BARRY,
your wife is trying to deal with losing you, but tell her for me, that she will regret it,if she doesn't spend all the time she can. I just lost my husband on Feb. 10, 2006 after a 13mo. battle with stage4 cancer. I spent all the time with him I could. I miss him, so much, I WISH we would have had more time,I didn't even know he was going to die that soon, we went to the hosp, they were going to send him home, the next day, then that morning they gave him 24 hrs.if she doesn't spend time with you, she thinks she is hurting now, it will be worse, because she will have a lot of regrets.
I AM SO SORRY. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOU FAMILY. also tell her she needs to make some good memories.
2006-10-12 22:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, live life to the fullest no matter what.Especailly your last days....go do somthing stupid that you normally dont do...but it has to be fun.If she don't love you then **** it, just go out and get laid with som other girl.Some people die when their 12....some at birth...some of those ask for just another 5 years of life and they think thats a blessing.You might want to think of all those years you've had a blessing.In another lifetime, mybe you died when u were 15 and all alone.Think about it.
2006-10-13 04:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by chesscrazz 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh I am so sorry that this is happening to you! If she is going to act this way then have you though of taking a lover for these last 6 months!
2006-10-13 04:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry and cannot even start to understand but hold on as long as you can for those who love you and where there is life there is hope
2006-10-13 04:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by william john l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like some consuling would be a good thing. Are you in a hospice program? Maybe they or your care provider can refer you and her to someone who can help both of you cope with this tragic news. Good luck to both of you.
2006-10-13 04:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that she may already be going through widows syndrome. May need to look else where and live it up so to speak.
2006-10-13 04:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by Next Please! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably angry that she is going to lose you, even if she doesn't realize it. Talk to her about this! You need to communicate with her and tell her how you feel.
I am sorry you have to go through this.
2006-10-13 04:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry about your luck. I would say...f- her. She is trying to distance herself from you so it will be less painful when you go. Please, live it up. take out some loans, (you dont have to worry about paying them back. Go out to Vegas. Drink, party, get a hooker. do whatever you want. well, thats what I would do. Just have a good time for as long as possible. Hope this helps.
2006-10-13 04:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by cmil8 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋