Is my personality okay?

Question

I am a quiet guy. I was born that way I really never talk much. I 'm nice, caring, I like to smile a lot, I'm more of a listener. Sometimes I think I am gonna end up like George Clooney, as a old bachelor because my luck has been, well sucky.
I can kinda hold conversations, but in time my ability to start one will fade resulting to nothing to talk about, following with "Gee that guy is boring." Sometimes I try to think about something...anything then nonsense would pop up or something that doesnt sound right to talk about, basically its either that or nothing the thing is I cant think about anything to talk about! I go blank. And theres no way I can make a woman laugh even if I tried my best, only perhaps if I tripped or make a fool out of myself. I am always under the impression most women like talkative guys that tell jokes and all. I am definitely NOT one of them.

Answer 1

There is some woman out there that would like your personality.If it bothers you so much then make some changes or just wait for the right one.

Answer 2

Hmmm . . . that sounds familiar . . . . There is a LOT you can do to solve your problem.

If you want to start a conversation, the easiest way to do that is to ask a good open-ended question. Avoid politics and religion at all costs. Now, that should get the ball rolling. When you run out of things to say, it's time to leave. Don't try to drag the conversation out after you all run out of things to say. It's better to leave before you run out of things to say, than to drag on with a dead-end conversation. But to be talkative all you have to do is talk. I think anyone can learn to overcome shyness.

You're right, women do like men with a sense of humor. But you can learn to be funny. Start by reading a lot of jokes and funny stuff online. You will then learn what makes jokes funny. Now, when you watch TV shows, try to think of a good comeback to every line you can. Then, try to use some of those lines during conversation. If you do these things, I think you will have a good sense of humor before much time passes. Just remember to keep it all upbeat and never put anyone down with your humor.

You need to be more optimistic too. I notice you seem to have given up on yourself. When you wrote this question, you had it resolved in your mind that you could not change the way you were. Now I hope you know better.

If you aren't having much luck dating, I suggest you use the following free online resources to help you realize what you are doing wrong:
This site: http://www.niceguys.org/
This site: http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove/
And this Internet radio show: http://www.worldtalkradio.com/show.asp?sid=202

Now, I think you should stay away from online dating. Good night!

Answer 3

I know that I don't like boring guys.

I can't see a long term relationship with a guy who's so lacking in the emotional quotient aspect.

There might be girls interested i n you though. Who knows?
Other plus factors may override this say if you're
- good looking
- intelligent
- gentlemanly
- generally likable
- responsible

Yes, but still. You're boring. If you can't talk to anybody at all, people would just see you as a social loser. Unless you're unbelievably cool, then you'd just be viewed as an aloof cool guy.

Answer 4

Sometimes a quiet guy can be nice to be around! A man can tell a woman many things without using words!

Answer 5

well there 's nothing wrong with being quiet .maybe it just being u......i think u ought to stop thinking about it ..some talkative guys perhaps tell the most funniest joke but they may not hav the personality like u mention caring..but they may have the worse attitude like being mean....its up to the girls to judge cos its their right....dont worry might meet a girl who likes u the way u r>good luck!

Answer 6

Well, somehow you're ok... are you sure you're not a psychiatrist or something? You can have a career on that.. hehe..

Seriously, some girls like the quiet-but-dependable-type-of-guy. Maybe you are one of those types. Just be yourself. You're gonna find that special girl for you soon. Just keep your eyes and heart open, okay?

Good luck! (",)

Answer 7

Your personality is who you are.

Don't change because you think it would be appropriate for someone else.

Then you are no longer you.

If not being able to talk bugs you, then you might want to work on that, but I wouldn't get too freaked out. Why burden your existence.

When you are motivated by a greater need, you will adapt, but relax for now.

Answer 8

Prepare to spend the rest of your life alone..or in the company of men called Tarquin and Sebastien.........We cannot all be winners, to win means someone has to lose, this is your style..accept it. It is natures process of natural selction you were not meant to procreate. Chances are you have a low sperm count too xx

Answer 9

All I can say is RELAX and GO WITH THE FLOW.
Don't try to think of the right thing to say.
Just be yourself and not try too hard.
If you try too hard, you will seem timid or stiff.
Just ENJOY the moment in time.
You're alright, guy, TRUST.

Answer 10

hey, you know one thing, find girls who are more talkative. your personality is fine. you are a introvert like me. most of the times talkative girls like quite guys and vise versa. so go ahead. stop exssesive thinking.