we have been very good friends with this guy, and we were having lots of fun, he said he had no galfriend and so there were no strings. things were pretty good.
last weekend i get a message from him saying:
sweetheart we are having so much fun with my fiance, jst to remind u, i need no inconviences so please DONTcall
we exchanged several messages after that and i was asking him y all of sudden, that was early in the morning
later, he sent a message and he was apoligizing saying all that was the work of his ex galfriend and his sister who are good friends, he had left his phone with his sister
i find hard to believe that, does anyone find any truth in that story?
2006-10-12 21:15:01 · 20 answers · asked by suzie s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is giving you a line. Why would he leave his phone at his sister house For? Next question why would his sister and ex girlfriend, text message that type of message for??? time for you to move on,
2006-10-12 21:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like a movie or soap line somewhere.
If you've been gud friends with this guy for sometime , ...haven't U met any of his other friends .
Anyway you're just friends so be cool about it. When U see him next ... ask him ..what's the real deal?.
We cannot believe everything at one glance. Give him a chance to explain. It won't hurt to listen and it is no use to lose a friend over this matter.
2006-10-12 21:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by SS92F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, all the guys answering all seem to think it's real. But that stands to reason. If they can make us all believe that things like this really happen then they can all go out and play all they want, right?
Honey, you are better then this. Dump his sorry *** and move on. Kick him to the curb before he decides he's tired of you and hurts you.
If you just want to have sex, or whatever, there are clubs and websites where you can meet people who are looking for fun, and no commitment.
2006-10-12 21:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tan Zanite 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AHHHHHHHH hell no, that is not something to play with whether his sister was playing a joke or not, I would take that as a sign and leave him alone.. You don't want to get caught up in some R-Kelly Chapters in the closet type BS anyway.. There are more single fish in the sea with no hooks,strings or crazy a@@ stories..Tell him to kick rocks and move on..Keep yourself from getting hurt Seriously!
2006-10-12 21:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know my sister and her best friend did something similar to my brother cause my sisters friend liked my brother, he was broken hearted when his girl just quit seeing him with no reason why, he did not find out til 5 yrs down the road and he is married to her now , It could happen. Do you trust him? Why would he lie? Think about it is it like him to do this? Use your common sense and heck call his sister and ask if necessary what ya got to lose.?
2006-10-12 21:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hm... it is quite possible... as I have seen this happen before to a friend of mine whos sister didn't like the girlfriend. She had her friends call their apartment all the time asking to talk to him and leaving sexual messages. Investigate them give the sister a royal as.s kicking
2006-10-12 21:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if it is true or not say nothing about it and never ask again, or you face a lonely future without him, face facts, you know you will not find another guy interested in you.,.so swallow it down and get on with letting him have his fun with you xx
2006-10-12 21:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To tell you the truth, this story doesn't sound too convincing. Why did he leave his phone with his sister in the first place? don't she have her own phone?
Anyway, guys are used to make up different story to cover up their asses.After all it is you who should know if he is lying or not, cause you are the on who knows him better
2006-10-12 21:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he isn't having any more fun with his fiancee and thought he'd give "you" a try. If he is telling the truth, it should be easy to check. Send him messages at an unseemly hour and see if he responds to them. Or even call him??
2006-10-12 21:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Biqo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it happened with me once when i used to share my phone with my sister there is this guy that i used to date and my sister did not like him cause he was so bad to her.
so she sent him a mes that i want to break up with him and don't want him to call me anymore.
Then i was calling him in the evening and he wouldn't talk to me
the next day h send me a mes and told its ok if u want to break up eith me but i will love u forever i told him that s not true ...blablabla
u know the rest of the story
get my point it maybe true.
2006-10-12 21:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by jesica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋